Girl Game: Initiate Sex By Touching Him On The Penis

One of the most frequent complaints from men is that their wives don’t initiate sex with them. In fact they can get pretty tore up about it because they feel sexually rejected by their wives because of it. After being the one to initiate sex for the 100th time, it’s easy to start to feel like the other person isn’t really all that interested in you. Which is an easy jump to…

Then the sexual drought starts with him pissed off at her, and her wondering why her husband doesn’t feel interested in her anymore and is always mad. Could be a while until the 101st time….

I’ve told the guys to just get the hell over their wives not initiating, and just ask for sex and get things started anyway. For the most part women are sexually responsive to men, so most women just wait to be asked to have sex. So the husband’s problem boils down to the fact that they want their wife to act like… well, act like a guy when it comes down to getting sex started.

Generally women do choose to show subtle availability signals though, but generally the husband just misses them completely. Her cooking his favorite food for dinner, having a long hot bath (to be perfectly fresh) and rubbing his upper back slowly for ten seconds while he is distracted with World of Warcraft, just doesn’t work very well at letting him know she is in the mood.

Oh sure some nights she could do all that and he will have sex with her, but her “moves” didn’t change the outcome because he doesn’t understand the subtle approach. He probably still thinks that he initiated sex even though she threw out half a dozen little signals of interest.

See when your husband initiates sex, he usually directly askes for sex, or starts groping you. So when he says/thinks “She never initiates sex.” what he really means is “She never just starts touching me on the penis without me asking her too.”

So the solution is pretty simple. Once in a while, just start touching him on the penis.

After you initiate sex by touching him on the penis, you can either stay more in control or less in control of the sex as you both like. But after the sex finishes, you should cuddle up to him and say something like, “I got good wife points for initiating right?” and when he agrees, you snuggle in a little more and give yourself a little verbal hi-five. “Yes!”

You can also do the touching him on the penis thing, right through his clothes. Just put your hand out into the front of his pants and feel around for something that feels like a penis. Once you find his penis, rub in an up-down motion gently – and this is important ladies so pay attention – rub in an up-down motion right on his penis.

You can also rub your ass all over the area proximal to the penis. Strippers make lots of money doing this, so by you doing this you’re actually saving money in the weekly budget too. So that’s double good wife points right there. You rock!