The subject of spanking came up over on the MMSL forums today. MAPster asked me to elaborate on why I thought a good, pre-sex spanking is a beautiful thing, and pointers are how to do it well. I’ll expand here a bit.
I specifically asked Mr. RedPill to oblige me in this, and we’ve really only had the opportunity to do it once. He put me over his knee, and went pretty slow at first, massaging then slapping. After a while, I told him he could hit harder if he wanted to, and I think he went all out, and it was fantastic.
Pointers:
-Cup your hand slightly and practice on yourself beforehand, to get the right sound. Louder, snappier sound is better.
-After you smack, massage the area tenderly for a second. It feels wonderful.
-Sexy lingerie would be a good idea for her, makes it more “naughty” I guess.
-Stop for a few seconds every now and then to force her legs apart to play with her, ahem, lady bits. (I’m describing this, why do I feel the need to say lady bits? Wtf)
-Alternate sides, don’t hit the same spot twice in a row. Let a spot rest a bit before you go after it again.
-Have a safe word.
-After you’re done, have her lay on her stomach, and massage cocoa butter or aloe vera lotion on her backside, carefully, and let her have a rest before you do anything else. It feels amazing on a hot, red backside.
What did I get out of it?
-I’d been having a pretty rough week, and letting him just take over and “punish” me was a huge release. I’m sure using his manly strength to subdue and punish me was a pretty big rush for him too
-I think I kind of get off a little on the shaming aspect…
-I kinda felt like I deserved it for something I’d done earlier, so it kind of made me feel better about the earlier transgression (I don’t even remember what it was now)
-The adrenaline once we got going… Rawr. I’ve gotten a similar rush from the pain of getting a tattoo. It’s just delicious.
-The feeling of submission vs dominance, don’t really need to explain that one.
The discussion was sparked from a comment from another female poster, where she mentioned that if she disrespected her husband, he’d give her a good spanking for it. I’m not sure how I feel about disciplinary spanking. I guess if it works for you, more power to ya, but I don’t think it’d work for me that way. The chance for hitting in anger is something I’d be concerned about. That’s not something I want to introduce in our relationship. There’s also the chance that I would like it too much, and start being bad on purpose. Rewarding good behavior, and all that. 
