We will never win an all-out battle against feminist mindsets because it is not a rational ethos. It is driven by emotion and childish entitlement. It has a strangle hold across media, television, music, popular culture, politics, universities, the work place and even religion. There are however ways for the small and gallant David to beat Goliath. This excellent article in The New Yorker got me thinking into how to defeat the beast. The winning strategy of David: refuse to fight on the giant’s terms. Most warriors, however, would slowly approach the champion, with fear and trepidation, looking for his weak spot. In a conventional sense there was none and thus they simply laid themselves open to attack.
David takes a different strategy by making the giant freeze up to see what this ‘harmless’ upstart is doing. In that moment when the giant is a stationary target, one quick shot of the sling and the fight is won.
Positive Beats Negative
There are many articles outlining negative traits of feminism, providing all manner of rational thought, but these are for red pill men. Anyone heavily invested in the politically correct feminist agenda will simply find arguments against them. I can take a person to Death Valley in the middle of summer at 120° and show them how dry it is, but they will retort: “It must rain here sometimes.” They will die of thirst in the desert before they admit it is a dry place because they are interested only in counter arguments. Let them sit for an hour or two, until their lips are parched, then my bottle of water will soon prove the point. Their weakness is within their own negativity. This ridiculous relationship interview with Ana Kasparian shows exactly how women are led off track and onto the cock carousel, yet refuse to acknowledge their folly.
In the same way that the nasty Goliath is built on the negative, so too politically correct feminist culture is built on the negative. It begins with women complaining they want equal rights, voting, education, careers whilst pointing the finger at men for holding women back. No man ever held a woman back from being feminine. He simply put rightful barriers in place to keep her safe from a more brutal male sphere. In essence he wanted to preserve her femininity.
Admittedly, some of those attitudes are rather old fashioned and did limit women in many ways. With today’s ‘safer’ and more technologically driven world, times have changed. We cannot revert to crusty old religious morals or try to re-impose what once was. Women got a jump start on men but have in reality done a pretty piss poor job of preserving their femininity.
Encouraging Women To Embrace The Feminine
Rather than try to engage negatives of feminism directly or use double negative MRA philosophy, bleating for the same things feminism does with a male spin, we simply need to encourage women to be feminine. When you look at the abundance of feminine role models, feminine content in media, marketing, products and so forth, it’s not a very difficult goal. The feminine is magnetic and attractive.
Perhaps one of the reasons why there are so many gay and trans men these days is because women are more butch. Lacking a true feminine element in their lives men simply start embracing the feminine themselves.
We know women are trend followers. Thus, an underground movement of masculine gentlemen, politely encouraging women to be feminine is our nuclear weapon. One of the criticisms of PUA and red pill is that it tends to take an aggressive or defensive stance. ‘Bang Bitches’, ‘Fuck Feminism’, ‘Fat Shaming’ etc. This attitude is largely an internal one that is good for a man’s mindset, but bad for our public cause.
An aggressive attitude on the outside hides insecurity within (no one likes a bully). We are right to be insecure when the domain of the masculine male is being eaten away. However, we cannot let insecurity show. If David went out a quivering mess or shouting insults at Goliath, his fear would have shown and he would have been beaten. This is the negative that the enemy wants to draw out. It diverts attention away from the enemy, weakens little David, and allows the enemy to point the finger.
“Not Very Feminine”
The girl looked pretty in her photos on tinder, but when you met at Starbucks for a date, she’s chubby. “You looked more feminine in your photo.” You cannot fault this line, it’s not offensive, but suddenly she’s thinking about it, talking to her friends about it. You can use it everywhere. A girl shows up to a date in sweatpants. Tell her she doesn’t look feminine. A girl shaves half her head—not very feminine. A girl is a slut—not very feminine. Off to a demanding MBA course—not very feminine. And so on. Everything about feminism is “not very feminine” and at the same time this is the most polite, cutting, critical and aggressive three words you can say to a woman. This is the sling shot straight to the head.
What Is Feminine?
Everything us red blooded men love about women AND it’s what women love about themselves. Telling a woman that she is ‘not very feminine’ or saying she looks butch, undermines and questions her biological platform, psychological mindset, ethics, moral compass, and social skills. Tell a girl she looks butch and watch her lose the plot.
Beautiful flowers, fine food, pleasant surroundings, attention to detail, crisp cool water, fields full of crops, coral reefs, sandy beaches, pleasant girls, full breasts, well looked after babies—these are all very ‘feminine’.
All of the flaws of feminism are framed into a context that exposes how ‘not very feminine’ the behavior is. Scout Wills (daughter of Bruce) can walk around town with her tits out in protest, but this is ‘not very feminine’. Feminine is graceful and reserved. We play on female insecurities. The only retort is for her to say she is not interested in being feminine, which of course causes a massive cognitive dissonance to any female, since even the most hardened feminist is extremely interested in being feminine. The problem is she has been sold on a false and corrupted concept of what ‘the feminine’ truly is.
A woman having a baby and rushing back to work, breast pumping milk at her desk while fielding sales calls, is ‘not very feminine’. The infant might have all that money can buy, but that is a masculine energy. A woman strutting about in a pant suit and running for president is ‘not very feminine’. Feminine is soft, gentle and graceful. In many ways it is more powerful than masculine. Adriana in her finest bikini is more likely to get attention than Hillary on her soapbox.
The World Needs More Feminine
The hardworking man is drawn to a pint of beer after work, precisely because it has a ‘feminine’ or nurturing energy. Feminine is magnetic—it draws you in. Sweaty mechanics in a car workshop hang pictures of topless women on the wall because it offsets the hard masculine, dirty, greasy environment. Soldiers in battle have a sweetheart because feminine energy offsets the harsh masculine. A man wants a home and a lover to return to because that is the feminine.
Girls wear pretty dresses, put on makeup, preen their long flowing hair, wear fancy shoes and sweet perfume, because that embraces the feminine. Men and women love the feminine. The feminine makes life worth living. The abundant planet with all its variety of animals, fruits and flowers is very feminine. The harsh burning sun is very masculine. Without an abundant fruitful planet in its orbit a star is just a big bright ball of fire. Without a feminine abundance a planet is just a ball of rock and dust. A proton has mass and velocity, but without a ‘feminine’ electron in its orbit it’s just a nasty free radical blasting through space. No one but a lost cause can argue with the feminine.
“A woman who wants to compete with a man, has very little ambition.” – Marilyn
Thus we see without a doubt that the counter to feminism is not ‘manism’, aggressive game, or a lot of debate about the negative. Rather it lies in a positive appreciation of what feminine truly is. The danger of course is the white knight who puts a woman on a pedestal and begins to worship that ‘feminine’ element that all women have. Perhaps one of the reasons it’s worshiped is because it’s a scare commodity today, but left unchecked the feminine element is destructive. Hurricanes, tidal waves, tornadoes are the feminine element out of control. We’ve all experienced how dark a girl’s bad mood can be.
The protection is to simply demand higher and higher standards of graceful creative feminine. Original PUAs suggested ‘neg-ing’ a girl to avoid pedestalization, this is just one application of demanding more feminine. Perhaps one of the reasons why feminists rail so aggressively against what they call the ‘objectification’ of women is because in order for their ruse to work effectively, it is necessary to destroy the essence of feminine. All masculine men need to do is politely expect females to embrace the feminine they embody and soon we will have a happier and more balanced world around us. Even fuller women can be feminine.
In some ways men win the lottery with their body type, but in other more beautiful ways women have advantages. No one is saying that women should be locked up at home having babies. No one is saying that a girl cannot have a rip roaring sex life, enjoying all manner of kinks with her lover (note the singular), or a lively and productive professional life.
It’s historically true that women were sexually restrained due to pregnancy issues and largely for their own safety couldn’t march into the work place en masse. Times have changed but that doesn’t mean that men or women should disregard what it means to be feminine. In truth, the entire human realm and the planet itself is extremely feminine, or as James Brown sang :
“It’s a man’s world, but it ain’t nothing without a woman.”
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