Last weekend, after she’d had one vodka too many, I bent her over the bed from behind, head banging against the wall, pulling her hair and spanking her; then I slid gently into her ass. She moaned about how dirty she felt while grinding her clit, but started going quiet. When the pleasure had turned completely to pain I let her have it and rolled off her, onto my back. The trick is to make sure the heat of the moment doesn’t cool off and turn into cold reality.

I was still hard after unloading into her rectum, which is unlike me because usually I’m a one-shot deal. I was smiling to myself, thinking I had “won”—Another mountain conquered—when she climbed on top of me and slid her pussy down onto me. Then came the words that made my hair stand on end:

“I love to feel like I’m using you.”

In that instant, the truth of the female was revealed in all it’s ugliness.

One of the things that manosphere talks about is the fickle nature of women and how to get around it, but the ultimate point is never quite reached: it is always ALL ABOUT HER. It’s fair enough for a person to look out for their own interests, but the duplicitous way in which the female goes about doing this must be fully exposed in a man’s mind or he will fall into one or other of her traps (not to mention endless disappointment and heartbreak).

Relationships

She is not with you because she likes you, cares about you, or wants to build a future with you; she is with you because it suits HER purposes. Make no mistake in this regard; it doesn’t matter whether it’s short-term and you’re the man about town who bangs like a champion, or she’s thinking you’ll make a half decent father: she’s angling for benefits. If we extrapolate this it virtually neutralizes the terms alpha and beta. Both serve HER purpose.

Much of the female goals are instinctive. We could say that much of the male goals are also instinctive, but at least we are vaguely conscious of them. Why does that 19-year-old with the perky tits and perfect ass turn your head and leave you craving to bang her? Its nature’s prerogative that you reproduce—that’s all. In the case of the female, much of her prerogatives are almost entirely unconscious, making them so much more difficult to deal with.

She’ll create drama and then offset it with mind blowing sex, say it’s casual then get pregnant by accident. She’ll try to make you jealous and then swear her undying love. None of it amounts to anything more than her chaotic, mismanaged drive to reproduce; something that most women need to fling themselves into like lemmings off a cliff, rather than constructing well thought out and complimentary partnerships with men. Nature laughs at the male, as the female constantly baits and switches him.

Sex

This thorny area has left many a man wanting to punch the walls in frustration. Sex with her is because IT SUITS HER. Sure there are all manners of techniques and approaches you can use to achieve having sex, but ultimately it happens because she wants it to happen.

She will give you a blow job, not because she wants to pleasure you and treat you well, but because it suits her purposes. Perhaps she doesn’t want to have full sex with you, so this is a way of keeping your fire burning. You might have drunk too much and SHE wants sex, so this is a way to get you going. Perhaps she wants to impress you, try out a technique her BFF told her about or be able to gossip to her friends. There are many reasons and they all center around HER.

She will have sex with you because she wants to start or maintain a sexual relationship of some sort, because she feels horny, naughty, because she wants to get back at a boyfriend, because her BFF has a new boyfriend, because her mother told her it’s high time she stopped being such a singleton, because she feels she owes you, or because she wants something from you. The list is almost endless, but there is always an agenda and none of it revolves around pleasing her man. She will cheat because it suits her or be loyal because it suits her.

Drama

Any kind of shit testing, attitude, cross examination, mindless banter (that she uses to gather intelligence), right through to all-out battle stations, has nothing to do with you. Even if she catches you pants down, balls-deep in her best friend, the ensuing fit is all about her. Men are not particularly great at dealing with emotional turmoil of any kind, least of all the low-level daily grind of minor blackmails. She knows this and it’s a great weapon to make you feel weak.

A woman can create drama and turn on the taps when it suits her. It does her little real damage. I’ve known girls that are prone to bluesy, weepy states just because they have their period, and 10 minutes later they are shining like the Caribbean sun. To a man these kinds of emotions seem utterly tragic and quite draining. My month is ruined if I allow myself to fall into a state like that. Being around someone else that is dramatic, moody or turning the taps on and off, can be highly destructive to a man and THAT IS THE IDEA.

Using even the most subtle drama, complaints, huffy moods, criticisms, being needy and “in your way,” getting worked up with her friends, gossiping, and so forth, will weaken you and make you less likely to stray. Most of it is not done consciously or on purpose and that’s what makes it so difficult to pinpoint and avoid.

I’ve got to the point where I’ve trained my mind to filter most of it out. It’s so painful to be around the female and all her irrational gibbering, that these days I have developed the smile, nod, look in the eye and “I hear what you are saying.” I hear it, but I don’t understand it, acknowledge it or even give it the slightest bit of credence in my mind. It’s a bit like traffic noise when I stand in the street.

Disorganization

It’s incredible to me how scatted the female can be. A woman who has an MBA and works a demanding career for a blue chip corporation, arranges product release schedules and marketing bulletins, cannot manage to keep a date, has a dozen excuses and is more slippery than a greasy pig. Her front of busy, scattered, and random has nothing to do with actually being like that—it simply suits her agenda. It’s nothing more than a smokescreen that allows her to play the field and make you work harder for pussy.

Women dream of being swept off their feet (and pounded senseless) by some dark handsome stranger. If they are not throwing up a never ending stream of disorganization, that will never happen. In actuality all it results in is a stressful and poorly-organized experience for the man in question. It’s all about her maintaining an appearance that she’s more valuable than she really is.

Make no mistake, though; when it suits her career, she decides to get pregnant, married, or undertake one of HER major life goals, she will be more organized than a platoon of Special Forces, and none of it will involve much co-operation with your good self. It’s all about her. In the meantime, expect random scatter, unpredictability, a drizzle of emotions, mindless conversation, time wasting, mood swings and more hopping and pecking than a cage full of canaries.

Conclusion

Above all, just don’t ever think you are getting something for nothing. As the saying goes, “pay peanuts, get monkeys”—and what do monkeys do ? They cheat, steal, bite, cackle, squeeze out babies willy nilly, fuck every alpha that comes along, throw stuff at you from their tree, and trash your belongings. Keep in mind that her agenda is always at the forefront of her actions, and you will be less likely to fall into her traps.

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