I don’t shy away from approaching groups of girls with the occasional guy, but looking back I can’t say those attempts have been fruitful. Recent example: I was hanging out with Virgle Kent when a girl glanced at me not once, not twice, but thrice. She was with one guy and one girl. I went in something light but got absolutely no response. The girl looked away, and the guy she was with gave me an evil stare. It was unnecessarily awkward. Virgle Kent just shook his head and told me he doesn’t bother approaching girls with guys in their groups. I was the devil’s advocate and disagreed with him at the time but I could only nod my head while reading Your Guy Friend…
I feel that single women who go out with mixed group of friends and then expect guys to approach and pick them up or hit on them are selfish. I don’t think they deserve my game. Selfish because they’re trying to play it safe by going out with males that will give them attention because they’re their friends. Yet at the same time they want other guys to come over and give them attention also? It’s a win win for the girl, no real risk involved, so why should I give them any reward? I feel if you go out with a group of people you should entertain and give them you’re full attention. If you go out looking for dick (either that night or in the future) then go hard or go home. If you do come out with a guy friend then the onus is on YOU to make it obvious and clear that you want to talk to a different guy. That mean that YOU will either have to approach the guy or stare him down like a stalker / bunny boiler till he has no choice but to come talk to you. Step your game up.
I’m confident his belief hasn’t cost him a single girl worth his time.
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