Sperm is biologically cheap, any male can produce many throughout his adult life. However, eggs, pregnancy and breast-feeding of a child is biologically very expensive and limited to women of good health during their fertile years. Thus, women have allot more sexual value to offer to men than men have to offer to women.
For this reason a woman can sell her body to men, while a man cannot sell his body to women. For this reason society required that men protect women and not the other way around. For this reason men are not picky regarding casual sex (paying sperm and getting eggs, pregnancy and breast-feeding is a good deal for any man) while women much more picky.
Women have an innate sexual value, even if they are weak and dumb, fertile women always ‘worth’ allot. This sexual value can be estimated easily in the hundreds of thousands of dollars or more for just a regular woman. As a man your innate sexual value is zero, you must earn your sexual value through your virtues and power.
Quoting Camilla Paglia – “A woman simply is, but a man must become. Masculinity is risky and elusive. It is achieved by a revolt from woman, and is confirmed only by other men. Feminist fantasies about the ideal “sensitive” male have failed. Manhood coerced into sensitivity is no manhood at all.”
A Patriarch cannot just smile and be nice. A Patriarch must earn, guard and enforce his masculinity.