Cynical Advice on Responsible Non-Monogamy

I’ve been asked about “responsible non-monogamy” a couple times over the last few months. I don’t advise stepping into this realm, but should you decide to venture there, let me give you this somewhat cynical advice…

Whether it be cuckolding, swinging or polyamory, the common theme is that the culture they establish is a matriarchal one. The purpose is to create a sub-culture where normal sexual mores are removed and replaced with a shame-free environment, where the normal covert desire for opportunitisic extra-pair-copulations, is allowed to become an overt one.

This creates an artifiical suspension of the normal rules of the sexual marketplace, with no Sex Rank penalities for “being a slut” and the ability given to women to spread getting their Alpha and Beta needs met over multiple men rather than just one. They can take Alpha from one or more men and Beta from others. As a result there is near zero resistance to the female sexual hypergamy impulse.

Therefore as a man, your primary goal is to be clearly hotter than the other men also particpating in this. Ideally you should be the very hottest man in your sub-cultural group.

The second thing, is to be become adept at convincing the less attractive men that experiencing jealousy is a natural reaction, but one they have to work through as a personal growth issue, until they find enjoyment in passively accepting you having sex with their love interest.

The third thing, is to convince the less attractive men that the right of females to choose their sexual partners in the sub-culture is of vital importance. If other females do not choose them, it’s just perfectly fine and while experiencing anger is a natural reaction, they should work through this as a personal growth issue until they find enjoyment in passively accepting you having sex with their love interest.

The fourth thing, is to convince the less attractive men that no one owns another person and you can’t really control anyone. So if their love interest decides to end their relationship and move in with you, there was nothing they could have really done to stop it, inevitably she was going to leave at some point. If it wasn’t going to be you, it was going to be someone else. So while experiencing sadness at the loss of their love interest is a natural reaction, they should work through this as a personal growth issue until they find enjoyment in passively accepting you having sex with their love interest.

Also it is helpful to have a really big penis.

The rest of the details about non-monogamy are just everyone’s Rationalization Hamsters having a press conference.