Exploration, Growth and Instability

Relationship patterns tend to come in sets of linked behaviors. Jumping between sets takes great effort and a period where things can appear to be getting worse before they get better. You tend to need to complete the whole set to get the set bonus.

Lower Sex Rank + Oneitis +

Stable Relationship + Low Alpha + High Beta + Low Physical Fitness +

“Equal” Marriage + Nice Guy Dealing With Fitness Tests = Poor Sex

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 Exploration, Growth and Instability  

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Higher Sex Rank + Sexy Moves +
Stable Relationship + Balanced Alpha and Beta + Good Physical Fitness +

Captain and First Officer + Nice Guy With An Edge = Great Sex

You may need to do it alone for a while, but if you can recruit your wife into understanding and consciously taking part in the period of exploration, growth and instability, it will all go much smoother and faster.

It’s okay if trying this stuff feels weird at first. Just stick with it.

Most wives crave the sort of husband I describe, even if they aren’t properly conscious of it at first.