It’s Ok to be a Boy

Much of what I talk about boils down to that it’s ok to be a man and exhibit normal male behavior. The betaization trap is really just about being feminized where husbands are expected to act inside a marriage in the same way a wife would. The trouble being that if you end up with a wife and a de facto wife in a marriage and the real one isn’t an emotional lesbian, then she gets very agitated at the situation.

Much of this learning that it’s not “ok to be a man” starts very early, when you learn that it’s not really “ok to be a boy”.