The guys writing about Game on the Internet, including myself, all have a starkly pragmatic Red Pill way of looking at the world and women. The difference between us and the character of Neo in The Matrix, is that we weren’t offered a clear choice of taking the Red Pill or not. The Red Pill was given to us via personal horror: walk-away wives, girlfriends leaving for a guy they said was an asshole, cleaned out bank accounts, “it’s not your baby”, no sex for months or years on end, the slow transformation of your darling bride into a venomous screetchtard.
In my case, I’ve been lucky as to how I was given the Red Pill. I got a good dose of it early on in my teen years when the major fallout from it was not much more than hurt feelings. A lot of what is good about Jennifer and myself is a result of that, but there’s been unwittingly good luck as well. A lot of what I’ve been doing with my writing is attempting to reverse engineer that luck, so that everyone else can use some of it too.
I suspect that for most guys, learning Game was Plan B. Plan A was taking the Blue Pill and being with one special girl forever. It just didn’t work out so well.
The real challenge of taking the Red Pill though, is learning to forgive her for whatever it was that she did to you. You don’t have to forget, it’s not even possible to forget something, but it is possible to forgive her. She probably already moved on mentally from you long ago, so it’s for your benefit I suggest you forgive and move on. I don’t mean you try and get her back or save her from whatever happened either. Her choices are hers to live with.
Getting the nookie is all fun and good, I get that. The nookie is very important and a big piece of your personal puzzle of happiness. But life is a long road to be angry at someone, plus there’s only so much room for emotion inside you. If you’re still deeply angry, or hurt, or hating, then there’s less room inside you for happiness, joy and love. If the purpose of Game is not to actually be happy, then why are you doing it? Revenge?
It’s fine to be mad about things. It’s normal and expected that you’re mad about shit that went down. At some point you just got to run with Plan B though. There’s nothing about the Red Pill that says you can’t make a change in the way you do things, readjust and have a better life. If you’ve already taken the Red Pill, you’ve already started to change anyway, the only question is to what degree and how far you take it.
If you want revenge, know that living well is the best revenge and living well involves happiness, joy and love.
Though when word gets out that you are “living well”, should she ever comes back trying to re-instigate herself into your life, the look on her face when you tell her she’s had her chance is probably going to be pretty satisfying too. There’s a Red Pill for chicks as well.
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