You Could Be So Good For Me

Often the thing you like about someone, is the same thing you dislike about them.

She’s always so engaging to talk to.

She never shuts up.

He’s so hunky, what a beefcake.

He spends all day in the damn gym.

She’s always so well put together, I can’t stop staring at her.

She’s never finished in the bathroom, we’re late again.

He’s so smart.

He makes me feel stupid.

She’s so great with making this place a home.

She’s a neat freak and what fuck is with all the pillows?

He’s always good to talk to about the things that really matter.

He’s so serious all the time. I’m bored.

Some times it’s the very things that drive us crazy about our partners that are the things we most need from them. There should be some sort of mutual benefit to each other to being together. You should be good for each other.

I’ll be honest. Sometimes Jennifer is a little too easy going and passive for me, but the thing I most love about her is that she’s always so accepting and soothing to me. On her end of things, I’m fairly sure that she wants to just groan and clutch her head with some of my little shenanigans. I say that because I’ve seen her just groan and clutch her head with some of my little shenanigans about three times a week for the last few years. But I also bring her to tears of laughter several times a week plus our lives are being taken over by my bright ideas that work.

I’m the lightning, she’s the earth. I’m good for her, she’s good for me.

 Like Rocky Balboa says, “I got gaps, she got gaps, together we don’t got gaps.”