There is excellent information in the manosphere but much of it focuses on the negative traits of women and feminism. What we need to do as men is turn those negative traits to our advantage. Game and PUA uses the female’s natural traits to get her into bed. Beyond that there are a variety of directions you can take her to. If you just want to bang different chicks and have sex the way you want it, well, rinse and repeat. There’s nothing much more to say. However even the best players admit it would be nice to have a woman (or two) on lock down. A way to do this is by turbo charging her sexuality and having her coming back for more.
To turn any girl into a nympho you simply have to make her embrace the sexual beast she is. Getting a girl to the stage where she’s so desperate for sex that you are doing her a favor by just being in the same room with her is a great feeling. It can be done and by giving her the best sex of her life, you can have her dreaming of you, anxiously checking her phone for your messages, and hanging on your every word. I’ve spent good money getting into a nightclub, only to have my girl announce before midnight that she’s so horny she ditched her underwear and is ready to go home and have me pound her every which way. It makes life so much easier if you can convert her into a nympho, because then she is chasing you for sex.
Once you get a woman into the bedroom, the game is not over. It has only just begun. So much of the focus of men, is on getting laid, that the temptation is to hump away for 5 minutes like a love sick puppy dog, nut, and call it a notch. If that works for you, fine and good, but in the long run, there are more advanced levels you can accomplish by making the effort. If you have sexual access to any woman, all you need to do is change your attitude away from “Yippee, I am getting laid” to “How long and how intense can I make sex for her?”
Think of it like a sport. It’s not exciting just to be playing the sport, you want the high score, the trophy, the victory, etc. If it’s the first time you get a new girl in bed, take command, control yourself and go all night. If it’s a girl you already sleep with or a stale LTR, find a way to isolate her and change the intensity level by a factor of 10.
Men need ‘some sex’ while women ‘are sex’. Think of her entire body as a giant sexual organ. You can tempt, tease, stimulate and excite her in so many many ways. Think of the most intense sex you have ever had, when the girl is just losing her mind, then make it 10 times more intense and make it last 10 times longer. Net result—she’s hanging for you to give her a repeat of that experience. The more you repeat it, the more addicted she gets, until she is openly thirsting for sex.
Better yet, she’s thirsting for sex with you, because she associates that mind blowing sex only with you. If you are the safe bet AND give the most exciting mind blowing experience, guess who she’s calling? It will take a couple of weeks of elbows deep fucking, you have to make an initial investment, but suddenly you will find her dressing sexy, acting extremely proactive, openly engaging you for sex, strutting about the house naked, offering you oral or anal when she has her period, etc. You will go from struggling to seduce her, to getting tired of her constant advances. I can barely get past the first drink, never mind make it to a night club, before she’s steering the evening straight into the bedroom. It’s very economical, if somewhat one dimensional.
Some basic pointers…
In a previous article I wrote, some commentators in the forums suggested that I was advocating becoming some kind of man whore. This is not the case. I am simply saying that many girls have not had the depth of sexual experiences to turn them into nymphos. You need to train her and break down her boundaries. A prerequisite is picking the right kind of girl. One who is more shy about sex, more openly seeks an LTR/boyfriend, and one that is amenable. There is no point in trying to invest in a vapid, slutty, lost cause, extrovert that’s already been on the cock carousel for years. That type of girl is a pump and dump. The other I’d describe more like a pump and inflate. One is a cheap $20 toy, the other is a real vehicle.
Slow it down
Sex by animal standards is a dangerous moment. She is extremely vulnerable to attack or social shaming. Thus she tends to rush it, to make you nut as fast as possible. When you nut, she’s won. She’s got your seed, you’re done with. So restrain yourself. Tease her, tempt her, lead her on, but cool the pace right down. Having a relaxing setting helps. This is obviously impossible at 4am behind the dumpster outside the nightclub and can also be tricky if she has flat mates plodding around the apartment. You want her 100% isolated.
Make sex a kind of on again, off again social activity, instead of a mad sprint to a relatively lame climax. Fuck her until she passes out and when she wakes up do it again. I’ve spent a week without leaving a hotel room and that girl became 100% my bitch for two years. You are the boss. Once you’ve penetrated her and she’s yours, take charge, switch off her cell phone, lock the bedroom door. Invade her realm. Take her prisoner. You have all the time in the world.
Music helps a lot with this. I like running MTV because there are lots of sexy images. Make sex into a lively ongoing interaction that lasts hours (and keeps her entertained). The longer you have her splayed, the less time she has for BFF chat, other men, female BS, etc. Don’t fuck her for 15 minutes, nut and then lie back and turn on the TV. Instant fail. The more sex you have the more sex she will NEED. Fuck her non stop from Friday night until Sunday night and who do you think she is calling next Friday? Women are desperate for entertainment, and what is more entertaining than sex?
Forget it
Don’t worry about your sexual experience. That will only increase in quality as you increase the quality and intensity of her experience. The complaint of many guys is they can’t be bothered with girlie chat to get her in bed. Tolerate it the first time and you’ll never have to bother again, because you’ll be too busy with your fist up her asshole and your dick in her mouth. Make it so nothing is more entertaining than sex. Make it so she feels that any time you’re together and not having sex, precious time is being wasted. It doesn’t matter if you don’t cum at 11am or 3pm or 6pm, drilling her is better than talking to her and you’ll get yours later tonight. Better yet, when you finish without cuming, she gets confused and wants to try again, and you still have all that sex drive ready.
Positioning
Show her you are stronger. Women always have this knack of finding the most awkward spot in the bed, right against the wall or on the edge. Move her. Pick her up, grab her hips or legs and drag her about. Bend her over the bed. Move to the table or dresser, force her up against the wall. Do whatever you damn well please. Never let her finish the interaction. You might stop to rest, but keep stroking, make her rub you and carry it on. Make it last for hours and you decide when you’re done.
Keep Your Pants On
It’s extremely empowering to have a naked woman in the bed while you are still partially clothed. This will also help you stop her hurrying the experience. Notice that women will often rush to unbuckle your belt, or start sucking your dick. Don’t let her. Often they are so anxious to be penetrated that they don’t bother about diseases or condoms. Why? They are hiding their own insecurities and stress. Relax her and take your time.
Use your hands, unwrap her and get her naked, play with her like she’s a new toy. A woman’s entire body is a sexual organ. When she’s aroused, stroke her skin with your fingernails and a feather touch (you can actually make a woman cum just doing this), work her nipples, finger her and make her taste her pussy. Force your fingers down her throat, choke her around the neck, etc.
Make her cum a couple of times first. She’s wants you to penetrate her, so the longer you make her wait the better. Don’t let her be like a cheap hooker from TJ that blows you in two minutes and goes back to the bar for another client. She doesn’t get off that easy—we’re going all night baby. No means yes, and screaming means “I want more”.
The goals are:
- Have her howling and make her pass out and then start again.
- Go all night long and all next day. Marathon session.
- Take her so far beyond a regular sexual experience that she spends the next month thinking of you, dreaming of a repeat, anxiously checking her phone for your messages. You say weekend away and she’s already packing her bags.
- Eclipse anyone else she has been with. She’ll remember you on her death bed.
- Turn her into your bitch. A woman will NEVER disrespect a man that does her right in the bedroom.
- Fuck her all night like you are 5 different guys visiting her one after another. That’s what she secretly wants.
Understand that she is built for sex, whereas you are only built to inject some sperm into her. Therefore (initially) you need to make extreme efforts to completely satisfy her. Don’t let your male ego get in the way, and don’t let her tricky female nature make you cum the first time she does. You milk her; it’s not the other way around.
Make the sex so good, that you are doing her a favor. In truth women need the emotional reboot of sex more than men need their release. Put the woman in her place and she’s all yours. If there is any hope of repolarizing women to be feminine, then Red Pill men everywhere need to roll up their sleeves and start ploughing the fields. We have an entire herd of unbalanced women out there to be taken care of.
Men crave sex by default, women crave sex once their neural pathways are trained. The more you train her, the more demanding she will become for the sex. If a girlfriend is flaky, an LTR is bitchy or a wife cheating, there is only ONE reason for it—she needs more sex. Persuading her is game. Nailing her until she passes out is smart.
Men get frustrated because it appears so easy for a woman to find a sex partner. In some cases this is true, but generally speaking girls cannot just go and hit on guys, they must wait for guys to come after them (hence all the dressing up, makeup etc.). It’s not hard to turn what appears to be a strength into a weakness. If she’s hungry for sex, she can’t just go and hit on guys. She has to take into account the risk factor more than a man and the quality of the sex is not assured. It’s way easier for her to phone the current man (YOU), than try to find a replacement.
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