With the summer coming and social life kicking up a notch, I thought it was a good moment for a little social engineering we can all experiment with. As people have mentioned it’s not much use if manosphere is just a bunch of blogs blowing off steam. We need to come together and start making an impression on the world.
First of all we must understand exactly what ‘going viral’ means. We know what it is, but today it’s an overused word; companies try to market their products virally and so the real concept is distorted. Viral is essentially something that spreads like wild fire, largely through word of mouth, without trying to ‘push’ a product in a traditional way (it shares overlap with the word ‘meme’). In many cases there may be no actual commercial venture or deliberate effort behind the viral spread—it could be a funny video on Youtube or some faux pas. What viral most definitely is: the spread of some new social attitude.
Prior to the internet there are plenty of cases of things ‘going viral’. An example might be the use of the word ‘cool’ or ‘dude’ or ‘rad’ or back to the 1960s hippies ‘hey man’. One of the most effective ways to spread a message virally is by colloquial phrases. I have experimented with installing phrases into people’s mindset all my life. It’s a game I like to play at school, in college, at work and generally in the community around me—I would see if unusual words and phrases would come back to me. Living in a foreign country I’d deliberately say hello to local barmen or shopkeepers in English or use the Italian ‘ciao’ and they’d soon start responding to me.
One word I used a lot is ‘clown’. Any time someone was being flakey or messing me about, I would refer to them as a ‘clown’. Few if any of my peers were using this word. It’s hardly an original phrase, but it wasn’t something in use. Slowly I began to notice the word coming back to me, and then I began to see it online in articles and it’s becoming more widely used. I am not trying to take credit for it since it’s not original enough, but I’ve certainly witnessed people who never used it before, parroting this phrase back to me.
Another example would be the spread of the word terrorist. The media and GW were extremely successful in installing that phase into the public’s mindset. Prior to 2001, ‘terrorist’ was a few fringe lunatic gangs in Europe like the IRA or Red Brigade who occasionally let off bombs by way of sending a political message. Today practically anyone that disagrees with you is a terrorist—the meaning of the word has changed.
Feminism started as a viral campaign. The word ‘gay’ is a viral campaign, since its meaning and usage pre 1960s was completely different.
Tribal Lingo
The reason that phrases spread so quickly is because at a tribal level we want to ‘click’ with each other and a way of doing this is by using the same terminology, but more importantly applying the same emotional spin. Terrorist was a dry definitive term pre-2001, today it carries emotional weight. One man’s terrorist is another man’s freedom fighter. They used to be called rebels, but that is a neutral word that doesn’t give their opposition the same weight to attack them with.
Changing the terminology in daily language and changing the emotional spin on the word changes people’s attitudes. I believe we can do the same with red pill, and most importantly we can do it without attaching any labels, trying to deliberately push a message, or expecting to receive thanks and credit. Just as the surfers spread the word ‘rad’ or ‘dude’, we can begin filtering manosphere phrases into the mainstream. One of the reasons why virality becomes so prolific and successful is because there is nothing to push back against. It’s not Coca-Cola shoving their sugary crap in your face, or some feminist forcing the agenda of the day.
Smartphones is a good place to start. Cease tolerating ‘clowns’ using cell phones when you are in a social setting. People are becoming increasingly fed up with smart phones—who better to change the world than the red blooded males amongst us? Here are some things you can say to a girl who pulls out her phone:
“Can you put that out please”
Just like a smoker is told to put his cigarette out. It’s perfectly socially acceptable. Pre 1980s if you asked someone in a bar to put a cigarette out, they’d probably head butt you. Today you’ll comply. Simply use the same term for a phone.
“We’re having a threesome?”
I tried this one when a girlfriend reached for her buzzing phone while I was still inside her. A cryptic variation of it – “If we’re having a threesome, they need to be in the room”.
“Are you earning webcam tips?”
A perfect cryptic phrase when her phone buzzes during sex.
“Airplane mode please”
I am sure we can spread this one like wild fire, and it will be amusing to see it come back at us in a few months. Thanks to Roosh and the boys at ROK, the world’s attitude changes, one phone call at a time.
Beyond The Phone
“Princess”
Immediately implies an annoying and high maintenance woman. Use it for your ex, a girl that friend zoned you, or for any entitled bitch. Because it’s not rude, much like ‘gay’, no one can complain. “Hurry up princess”.
“Baby Momma”
Is already around, but its use can be amped up a great deal. Perfect for an ex, and can be used humorously even with a girl you just met an hour ago. It doesn’t have to imply you have a kid with her, it simply puts women in their place as baby mommas.
“Are You PMS’ing?”
We can pinch this one from a Katy Perry song. Any time a girl is in a bad mood just ask her this question. It immediately calls her to attention (and you will be biologically correct much of the time anyway). Sexual liberation lets us use phrases like this right out in the open. Use the ‘enemies’ weapons against her. Make a point of using it not only with girls you are intimate with, but to strangers like the bitchy bank clerk or airline check-in girl. Use confidence and put a smile on your face. Empathize with her. The feminist is instantly deflated and put in check by her biological reality. This is the kind of thing that gay men have been getting away with for years and why women love them so much.
“No One Is Going To Bite You”
Particularly poignant after the World Cup Luis Suarez controversy. It implies a person is insecure and over reacting to whatever situation. Perfect her her hissy fits.
All In The Attitude
Stop dancing around women like you owe them something. Stop taking no for an answer and doing what you are told. Switch on a smile and beat the drab and boring world around you with smarts. Game is not just about getting pussy—it’s about being a smarter, better, brighter more interesting man. This should immediately be reflected not only in female interest, but in social acceptance, professional recognition and financial success. Female interest is probably the easiest and least important of the results you can obtain from having game. I’ll take a billion, a private jet, and a 200 foot yacht over pussy any day.
Focus the anger you feel into something productive. Anger tells you something is wrong, but unfortunately it’s such a lizard brained response, you just feel like going for the kill. For the last 150 years or so, that has not produced the correct result. Killers no longer win, especially if they are just manboys huffing and puffing. Focusing that raw, primal urge to kill is difficult I admit, but it can produce amazing results. The language you use is an important part of that.
I am sure there are other phrases we can adopt. It only takes a few people out there to start hammering home the message in happy, casual, daily conversation and the fire will spread faster than a smoldering cigarette butt in the Californian scrub.
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