I began to notice a change.

I admit it, I was paying for dates back then.

And the women I was with started saying things like, “Wow, you’re paying?  Men don’t do that anymore.”

And that got me thinking.  I was spending more time trying to be Casanova.  I had read the Art of Seduction long before this.

I enjoyed the slow build up, running into a girl maybe once a week, seducing her.  Getting to the point where she would impulsively shout out, “I love you!” as I was starting to walk away, before she realized what she was doing.

And the thinking led me to Game.

Back when I paid for dates (and I still will . . . after I have slept with her), I got a lot more last minute resistance.

Of the worst possible kind.

Like when a woman is naked, in bed and performing a blow job and then stopping suddenly.  Or naked in my bed and then freakin out at that moment.

But I think back on those times and I realize that there are two possible explanations for the way women reacted to me paying:

Either game has spread a lot more than people realize.

or

The only men women were dating understood Game.

I suspect it was number two.  Now before you all start saying they were bar sluts.  I met these girls everywhere.  On the streets, at farmer markets, at BBQs at friend’s houses, at the bank.  It didn’t matter.

So which do you think it is?