When describing the type of man women are attracted to, people tend to use the term “Best” man or a “Good” man. I can understand pick up artists and seducers wanting to think of themselves as the “Best” out there, but this is not the case, and you all damn well know it.
Stop using those two words, because they are inaccurate and worse, they pedestal women. By saying they want the “Best” man or a “Good” man, not only are you lying, you are pedestaling women. You are saying their biological drives are in fact for the betterment of the human species and we all know that ain’t so. Anyone that has watched the last forty years unfold should recognize that women’s sexuality is more wanton, more destructive, more whimsy than anything else.
It is like saying that men pick the best women they can get. No, they pick the most physically beautiful woman. Men do not pick the smartest, they do not pick the nicest, they do not pick the most moral woman, they pick the best looking woman they can get, the other factors are a distant second.
We all recognize what men like and are attracted to. Yet, even among those that understand what women are attracted to, they still fall back on the words “Best” or “Good.” It may be convenient, it might be an easy short hand. It may even be an ego boost, but for a person with game there is no reason for this indirect bragging.
If your ego is so fragile that you need to think of yourself as the best that a woman has ever had, I need to point out right now that whatever the girl is saying to you, she’s lying to you.
At least among men, they select based on something that can be objectively judged. When there is a dirth of men, the attractiveness of the species increases. This I do not discount as being unimportant. Beauty, is something to be savored and enjoyed.
Women, likewise do not select the “Best” man. They do not select for intelligence. They do not select for looks, or skill, or talent (although those things may play into it). They do not select fot morals.
No, what women select for is dominance, and dangerous dominance makes them even more excited. To say they pick the “Best” when any serial killer will draw them like lemmings are drawn to the sea, is clearly erroneous.
Further, it pedestals women. It implies that their evolutionary choices are superior to men’s. This is not true. Long term unfettered choice for men makes the species pretty. Unfettered choice be women makes the species more violent, less socially cooperative and ultimately returns humaity to the savannah.
Nor does it pick the “best” genes whatever the hell that means. Arguablly it picks the genes that are best for replicating, but that is only arguable. Are the genes for the Beta ape any more superior for the females once he realizes the silverback is sick and dying and he kills the silverback and takes his place?
No. They are the same.
Yet the females rejected him before and now willingly mate with him for as long as his reign continues. Yet if the silverback never got sick, , or the Beta got injured (and life in the wild is always filled with chance and accidents) those genes would not pass on.
People use the “Best” man or a “Good” man. These terms really are not correct. A dominant man is correct. Women may marry a “Good” man or a provider, but their hearts long for the ones that are bad.
Saying women want the best man is pedestaling. It would be like saying that men like the best women.
Stop. Just stop.
