Sorry.
It doesn’t happen.
Note that being an introvert is not the same as being aloof.
In order to be get women, you have to be involved with people.
You have to act extroverted, even if you are not extroverted. That is to say, you have to interact. You have to approach women or be in a setting where you are interacting with them.
They key part is interacting. Introversion is inner focused. Extraversion is external focus.
Even being aloof, you are interacting.
If you are being “aloof” by quietly resting against the wall and watching what other people are doing, unless you look like the man on the cover of People’s “Sexiest man alive” you’re not getting anywhere and even then you are going to have to interact.
Now if you’re a girl, you can sit in the library and read a book and if you are reasonably attractive you will get hit on.
How many men have picked up women at the library without talking to them? Without being the one to approach? I would say zero, but I know that some reader will chirp up and say it happened to them, or to a guy they know, or to their father’s cousin’s best friend.
Really it just doesn’t happen.
Certainly there is one word game, there is sick game, and hangover game and all those different ways of doing as little as possible to get the girl to chase, but you have to have a hook.
A girl isn’t going to chase a guy that has not hooked her, baited her, drawn her in.
Many people think of the “loners” as being introverted. The ones that sit in their basement are loners, the ones that are busy doing things with people (even if its cracking skulls) are engaged in extrovert behaviors.
An extrovert is engaged with the outside world.
When we read a book, or go to a movie, or watch television, or plays a video game, we may like characters that are loners, or troubled and introspective, but we are drawn to what they do which is extroverted.
Watching Tony Stark grapple with his daddy issues is ok for a couple minutes, but it is not going to excite us and make us interested in him if we spend two hours watching him brooding over what a bastard his dad was.
It is our actions that are seductive. It is our interactions with people that define us in the minds of others, not our rich private internal life.
Define yourself however you want, label people according to the Major Arcana of the Tarot if you want for all I care.
Here’s a start: The leaders of men are Emperors and they will have a harem of women, Hermits are MGTOW, Fools are supplicating blue pill Betas, Magicians are synthetic pick up artists that get hot chicks, Feminists are High Priestesses, Entitled Bitches are Empresses. Frustrated Celibates are Hanged Men, The Wheel of Fortune is the sexual marketplace, Heirophants are guys in long term monogamous relationships, Stars are unique little snowflakes, Moons are women that have lost respect for their male partner, The Devil is Talleyrand, you get the idea.
Does any of this improve your understanding of anything?
No.
There’s only two questions you need to ask in your relationships with women:
1) Does it attract her? (yes/no)
2) Does it repel her? (yes/no)
If question one is yes its alpha, question two is yes, its omega, and if both are no, its beta.
If it comforts you to believe that your persona is The Knight of Swords, go right ahead, just understand you’re putting yourself in a box. Simply because you like the idea of being The Knight of Swords, doesn’t mean you are.
