Let’s You And Her Fight
One of the most powerful, yet underused, tactics in a man’s arsenal of seduction is to mindfuck two or more female friends into an ego spiral of oneupsmanship. Never underestimate women’s natural instinct to outcompete other women in the sexual market for a desired man’s attention. A woman is not a demure, empty vessel seated in dainty repose to watch languidly while men duke it out for the honor of her hand. Women compete as viciously with other women as men compete with other men, though women do so with more plausible deniability. Knowing this fact of female nature, a man can raise his perceived value by purposely fomenting rivalry between women.
Unless you are a man who mostly runs day game (i.e., meeting girls outside of venues designed for contrived social interaction) you will rarely encounter a woman alone. In bars, nightclubs, museums, at shows and events, a woman normally will be with other women. In these circumstances the opportunity to run “Let’s you and her fight” game is limitless. You should incorporate this tactic into your game right now. It will feel strange at first, especially if you are a guy who is unaccustomed to flipping the seduction script, but the weird feeling will quickly dissipate once you’re enjoying the spectacle of two women clash egos and subtly undermine each other to earn your blessing. It is a power rush on par with performing on stage.
Straight out of college I used to hang out a lot with a natural. “Geno” had been good with women his whole life. If he weren’t a workaholic, he could have easily racked up a mid triple digit partner count by his late 20s. I learned more from observing his interactions with women than I did from reading a hundred books about female psychology. One of Geno’s greatest gifts to women was his uncanny ability to get them feverishly competing for his attention. How did he do this?
For starters, Geno knew how to command a social circle. He was a salesman by occupation, and his sales skills helped him intuitively understand the emotional needs of a captive audience. He never let any one person in the group monopolize his attention, though they often tried; he was adept at including people in the ebb and flow of conversation. This strategy of inclusiveness — of addressing the whole group — would lay the groundwork for playing one girl off another girl. I remember some of the things he would say to two or more girls:
If one of the girls made a decent joke, Geno would say to his target (the hotter girl): “Your friend is winning me over. You better step it up.”
He would often critically appraise a woman’s clothing in relation to what one of her friends was wearing: “AWESOME scarf!” [Hint of sarcastic emphasis on "awesome"] Turning to the girl he found most attractive: “Where’s your scarf?”
If his target danced sexily: “WOW, I’ve never seen a girl dance like that!” Turning to face her friend: “Except her.”
If two girls were gabbing simultaneously at him: “One of you is definitely making more sense.”
When one of the girls would flirt with him: “Hey!”, Geno would look over at the other girl, “Your friend knows all the moves.”
When the flirting escalated to the point of touching: “I’ve got bad news. Your friend already gave me a shoulder rub. She’s in the lead.”
If one girl was talking to another guy in the group: “Hey man, watch out for her. She likes to make her girlfriends jealous.”
Geno addressing the group: “Who’s the Mama Hen? Who’s the jealous step sister?”
Geno, addressing his target when she was alone: “I saw your friend flirting with the bartender upstairs. He looks like he’s in love!”
And la bomba del juego: “OK, so which one of you two is the dirty whore and which one is the prude?” You’ll note that there is no correct answer to this question.
There are direct ways for a man to raise his value (e.g. storytelling, magic tricks, negs, good style) and there are indirect ways (social proof, “Let’s you and her fight”). The indirect ways require more skill to wield without tooling yourself, but the payoff in pussy yield is greater.
