Alright so im super new to cold approach. My dream reality is having over 10 plates at a time and honestly i feel like i can do it, im pretty good looking and extermly funny (ive been told by many people). I recently be friended a new guy whos really social and extroverted. (Btw i encourage all people who want to become more social to be friends with super social people). This guy is so out going its fucking insane, at least to me i guess. Weve been hanging out alot and his social skills are rubbing off on me. He also does cold approaching sometimes. Being a kiss less virgin he took me along and started pushing me to do approaches. The first couple days i didnt get anywhere, i had "reasons" and always bitched out. But today i was like fuck it. Now it was kind of scary but honestly the only scary part, at least for me, was the actual, "hey there" once i got conversation going, it went pretty well. Whats your guy's personal advice for cold approaching if you have any? I learned that not giving your self is an option and not to think about it too much and just jump in.

The first one went really well. I guess the varibles kind of played in my favor, she was a incoming freshman on her orientaion looking for the garage because it was over. I noticed she was kind of lost on campus so i just went up and asked if she needed help, ended up getting her number. The thing is she was really shy. She only spoke 20 words total throughout our 5-7 minute convo (i walked her to her car), but she thought i was super funny lol. My first question is whats your opinion on shy girls? Shes probably a HB-6, and soon to be freshman. My friend said it was good practice but not to fuck with it because it will end up being me who does all the work/talking when it comes to shy girls. I agree with him on this, and im not really bothered as she wasnt insanly hot anyway.

The next one didnt end as successful. I went to drop of some papers at this office area in my school and the front desk girl was a student, probably like HB-9, she was fine as fuck. I dropped them off and noticed she was kind of open and somewhat giving IOIs. As i left to go back to my class, i started thinking, "if i dont turn back right now and do something, ima deal with the fucking regret, and i HATE!!!!!! the fucking regret". After like a minute of debating in my head, i didnt give myself a choice. I walked back, and at first there was a guy who greeted me and asked what i wanted. She was right next to him. I kind of felt akward so i made up some bullshit question so he could fuck off. They both answered my question and i was done heading back out the door. I noticed he was leaving her and didnt even allow the debate in my head to begin. I walked back up to her and said, "im not gonna lie, i just came back for your number", confident as fuck and solid eye contact with a smile. I feel like a pussy saying all this shit but i think there importamt details lol. She laughed and said that it was against the work rules to do that. I just said oh really, alright its cool". I know shes just bullshitting me and just rejecting me. But whatever, i know not to beg after she says no. Plus reject is way better than regret. The thing is i feel like i couldve fought a little harder. Like for example say "its cool, i wont tell anyone" or something. Whats your guy's experience/advice on persisting and that type of thing? To me i feel like its really bad but after reading The Rational Male i feel like that counts as the feminine brainwashing that we all experience in the modern day. But i dont know.

Thank you