So, right off the bat I feel that I should mention before reading this, keep in mind my girlfriend is VERY stressed as her mom is dealing with a terminal sickness and the possibility of death. If you guys feel at all like that might have anything to do with what is written below I would love to hear!

So i’ve been dating this girl who’s the same age as me [17] and while it’s been AMAZING the first 5 months, this sixth month has been something else. It seems to me like she’s trying to push her limits as far as she can, and do what she wants.

Allow me to explain in short, she’s promised to stop smoking weed twice this month since I just genuinely don’t want her smoking and she has broken her promise and lied to me both times after i caught onto her games. Naturally I was pissed at the fact that she lied and went behind my back so i laid down rules to which she lost her shit over, but also she’s been arguing like crazy and been extremely hypocritical. I’ve intentionally said shit that she’s said to me before and she flips her shit so I call her out for being a hypocrite. Also another big issue is she is TERRIBLE at communicating. She will plan to hangout with me then go do something else without so much as mentioning anything, so again i’m naturally angry and we get into an argument. Now i’m sure i’m going about a lot of this the wrong way and that’s why I need help. I am FAR from understanding TRP, especially while in a LTR. So my question is basically, how do I get this girl to respect me and my opinions again, communicate with me, and be truthful? It also wouldn’t hurt if any of you guys had some methods for making her go crazy for my attention and time again. How the hell can I become an Alpha in this relationship.

I lift a couple days a week, have always dressed nice and plenty of girls talk to me in person and compliment me, so I feel that physical attraction isn’t really an issue and she knows I have options aside from her.

TLDR: I need help becoming an Alpha, and getting my relationship under control