Strait up I have never been able to orgasm during sex.

Could always get it up and was attracted to it just could never orgasm.

I am 20 and have been sexually active for 3 years now & it had never been an issue, couldn't orgasm but still had sex right?

However I recently went to Europe on University scholarship for 8 months were I became much more active in my sex life and found that no matter the occasion or anything else I couldn't orgasm & as a result began to seriously become disinterested in looking for girls (not worth the candle?).

I was lucky in that I had some close friends that I could hang around easily with so I began to focus more of my energies (free time) into travel which I personally got a lot more enjoyment from, the draw back to this was many of my other friends and peers didn't or couldn't understand that I wasn't interested and it began to become an issue when my friends were

-Drunk & trying to pick up women.

-Going to prostitutes (strip bars were awesome but I had no interest in getting a BJ)

-Going to clubs & bringing home girls (or not in my case)

-Rejecting girls (or more just one that was really crazy and had issues, as they say "don't stick your dick in crazy")

I began to feel like I was being judged & that I felt some serious social pressure to just play along to still maintain my circle of friends & to not have my man hood called into question (the old "are you gay stuff"), they were never rude or uncaring it was just like they didn't understand how someone wouldn't want to do these things.

Note: all of these things I was perfectly fine with on moral grounds and the like (prostitutes mainly) so I had no issues with them and stuff like that, also all the stuff we did was perfectly legal in both were I was and back home here in Australia.

Also: masturbation has always been fine for me, no issues there.

Finally: just wanted to vent and so there is no reason to worry