Until now I pretty much had to teach me everything I know. I had little contact with my father and if I had it would have saved me a lot of time finding stuff out myself. Moreover, the further i get in terms of studies and career the more I have to realise that my competition had that form of guidancy through their families their entire lifes. One way to catch up, i believe, is to find someone who could give me advice regarding career and even in terms of how to be a man. So my question goes to those who found a mentor in their lifes. How did you find him? Was it pure chance you met him?