Sometimes the difference with TRP theory on a comment getting hundreds of downvotes or hundreds of upvotes lays with how it's phrased.

TRPsubmitter · 2014-01-16T19:48:49+00:00

Doesn't apply here, but as I am sure a lot of people are familiar with I've noticed if you "pass as black" you get a huge pass to talk about "gold digging hoes", and other things freely. Feminists are too scared of their own PC culture to approach a black man, and also I think view the "ghetto" lifestyle they associate them with as another world beyond their little white suburbia.

trudatness · 2014-01-16T19:15:02+00:00

It also depends on who you are, too.

If you get a rep as a "piller' you'll get brigaded and downvoted pretty much no matter what you post.

puaSenator · 2014-01-16T23:37:28+00:00

Last week I talked with a run-of-the-mill feminist while doing some work. We ended up talking a good hour on feminism and the whole mess. I was actually taking TRP sides and she was agreeing. For instance, the whole crying issue. She thinks it should be okay for men to cry, just as much as women if it's needed, and men shouldn't be judged negatively for it. I then explained, it's not that simple. Men don't want to be seen as someone who cries. It's not a social thing, it's a personal thing. Crying is a sign of defeat or losing emotional control. "How would you like it if your BF cried as frequently as you did? Seriously think about it. If he was crying that frequently, something is clearly wrong with the relationship, don't you think?" She then responded with, "You know, now that I think about it, I don't think I'd like it if he cried as much as me." Obviously I am paraphrasing.

Now this was a tumblr 3rd wave feminist who has made feminism a part of her life. She had no idea I was a piller, so when I brought these concepts up in neutral terms, it made a lot of sense.

nivek7913 · 2014-01-16T17:11:10+00:00

Doesn't this apply to most things in general?

vaker · 2014-01-16T22:41:24+00:00

Stereotypes are based on truth, whether people want to admit it or not.

That was a brave thing to say on reddit, or in contemporary american society in general.

SomersetRaglan · 2014-01-16T22:43:36+00:00

Emphasizing the fact that most people care about how you say something and not what is being said.

Which is a feminine quality. Women don't care about facts, so its the phrasing they dote over. Men care about bottom line and just look at facts. But with the feminization of the American man, the average male starts thinking like a woman.

LastRevision · 2014-01-17T05:40:18+00:00

"A super attractive guy will probably also have luck, though he'll still probably be initiating. An average looking women will still not have to try very hard, where as an average man will have to really work the charm and again be initiating."

If only we had a single word for this practice that encapsulated the entire idea.... Gah, oh well.

BloodRoseTRP · 2014-01-17T03:06:35+00:00

The use of or lack of Trigger words will make or break your proposition and how people receive you.

FuriousMouse · 2014-01-18T21:25:04+00:00

On of the truths about women is that they will take nothing at face value and always think "what does that mean".
One of the biggest results of that is that it matters enormously where things come from

If a fat 40 year old creepy guy in a gray coat says "you are looking good" to a 24 year old girl on the street she will probably freak out of disgust.

If 80 year old Sean Connery said the same thing she would probably get soft knees on the spot and wet her panties of excitement.

Title	Sometimes the difference with TRP theory on a comment getting hundreds of downvotes or hundreds of upvotes lays with how it's phrased.
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	19
Comments	13
Date	January 16, 2014 5:07 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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