I will be homeless in the next month and I have no car. My credit is hopelessly low, and I'm feeling suicidal. Should I break up with my GF?

anonymau5 · 2018-06-27T12:10:58+00:00

I'd be more concerned with finding another job and a place to live right now.

vandaalen · 2018-06-27T12:20:55+00:00

You are about to become homeless and the best thing to do you can think of is nexting your girlfriend?

How exactly do you plan on "bouncing back" from being a homeless bum? With a "work ethic" that brought you into this situation in the first place?

Go and find a fucking roof to sleep under. The way from homeless and jobless to not being those to is more than hard. The streets are filled with guys like you.

KamiNoTsurugi · 2018-06-27T12:52:36+00:00

Honestly, you're pissing me off. Your shit work ethic and priorities have ruined you and all you're thinking of is your chick and if you should dump her.

You're what's giving other guys a bad name.

Take her up on her offer. Move in with her. Get your shit together. Work your ass off and find a job ffs.

Your questions are like saying "my TV cables aren't connected to my PlayStation. I can't play games. Should I have the dog put down?"

Ffs grow up and just do it!

88VILLI · 2018-06-27T12:56:20+00:00

she’s sticking with you at your lowest point AND giving you a place to live? yes you must break up with her immediately. /s

carn_hell · 2018-06-27T12:20:04+00:00

She is not the source of any single problem that you are facing. Work on problems and stop inventing them in your mind.

I will be homeless in the next month I have no car. My credit is hopelessly low I'm feeling suicidal.

This has nothing to do with AWALT or hypergamy. TRP does not preach being single at any cost. It's about knowing your self, your own value and embracing the lifestyle that you want to have by working towards it every damn day. You are a captain and if she follows - keep her. Read the sidebar. Get basics under your belt.

btharmony · 2018-06-27T12:21:41+00:00

Imagine the childhood version of you meeting the guy writing this post. Would you want him to see this?

You know deep down than you can overcome this, but you lack the confidence to give it 100% affirmation. I don't even know you, but being strong, smart and relentless to fight for what you want is what will make you a man.

Also, forget AWALT and whatever concerns you have about your girl right now. She will only love/respect you as much as you love/respect yourself.

You got this brother.

[deleted] · 2018-06-27T13:16:14+00:00

Move in with her.
Get to bed at a good time the first night. Use melatonin if you have trouble sleeping. Sleep is shown to reduce depression
Wake up early. Shown to reduce depression
Cook her breakfast.
Clean her house. If must be spotless. Obviously don't throw out her shit or anything that would piss her off. Shown to reduce depression
Eat well. Consider cooking lunches and dinners for your girlfriend.
Lift, but don't spend all day on this. Not your priority at the moment, just do enough not to get fat and slow.
Create a schedule for every day going forward. Something like: wake up, cook, clean, job search, lift(mwf).
Don't drink or smoke weed at all.

bannedbyrnewsmods1 · 2018-06-27T13:26:01+00:00

You’re broke and homeless and are asking if you should live rent free? Fucking hate that my taxes get spent on people like you to be very honest .

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2018-06-27T14:19:32+00:00

I'm calling this a troll post.

363Bruh · 2018-06-27T13:35:32+00:00

How long have you been dating? And who's Julia? from 7 months ago lol

thegreattot · 2018-06-27T14:19:22+00:00

How are you going to preach about your work ethic when you're credit is shit you have no money and no car and no home ...why are you loosing your house why were you not prepared . I'm 22 and I've got 8 grand put back just in case the flood gates open . Jesus bro...get a job (not a bullshit minimum wage job) and honestly even if your girl does cheat on you its your fault for not being better so use this opportunity to become better .

[deleted] · 2018-06-27T15:15:43+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/almosthomeless/

BPasFuck · 2018-06-27T17:36:55+00:00

This post is a perfect example for the recent one asking why we sometimes shit on our 'brothers.'

This is a guy that needed to get shit on. A guy that has/had it twisted.

Jesus Christ.

As for OP here, you've already gotten all the good advice from the previous posts in this thread. It's all basic, and easy-to-implement. So do it. You have way more important shit to be worrying about than women. Just be glad you've got one that thinks you're worth holding onto, while you get sorted out.

If you make it through this with the relationship intact, consider what that says about her, her character, and her suitability to become a mother.

Title	I will be homeless in the next month and I have no car. My credit is hopelessly low, and I'm feeling suicidal. Should I break up with my GF?
Author	carn_hell
Upvotes	1
Comments	26
Date	June 27, 2018 11:42 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8u8wsm/i_will_be_homeless_in_the_next_month_and_i_have/
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