A girlfriend of mine invited me over in the evening to cook for me. I took this for a positive sign an went over to her. When I arrived she bought some beer for us to drink which I also took fit a very positive sign. However she gave me some shittests: She told me practically she did exactly the same (cooking and drinking) with another dude a night before. Told me how he commented he could notice when she had her ovulation as she then seemed more flirty. She asked me if I could notice that as well. Tbh I was baffled. I told her I didnt care and tried to ignore. Later she praised hin further telling me how rich his family was and so on. I ignored. As the evening went she cooked for me while I watched the world cup on TV. The whole time she pushed me to drink more beer. And even asked me if I wanted some liquor. However she drank almost nothing. Later I had some good opportunities to escelate, we had some body contact and so far. I did not as I had a bad feeling about this. Both the story about the other dude and her trying to get me drunk should obviously push me to escelate. The fact that she did not drink herself and the constant shit tests had pushed me of. My thoughts were, if she would truly bei interested she would not risk offending me. When she started talking about her boyfriend I knew my window of opportunity has closed.

So I ask for your thoughts. What was the meaning of all this?