For beginners im 22 years old, done muay thai for the last 4 years recently started lifting about 7 months ago. i play computer games alot (used to alot more) . I lack alot of self confidence and am insecure. alot of females ive talked to have all stated im a good looking guy and funny. i still lack confidence in my appearance although i frequently get told im an attractive guy. Nothing over the top but around a 7. all in all ive been with 4 girls my entire life sexually. i dont go out alot.. im a hopeless romantic.

ive recently started trying to bring that aspect up in my life. i always end up getting attached to a girl and wanting to be a pleaser. How can i remain mysterious. for example if a girl as what im doing. how can i stop getting emotionally attatched? right now im in a shit situation i met a girl online in australia she broke up with her ex 7 months ago, i bought a ticket to go see her in march.. i fly out the 27th of this month to see her but throughout our whole relationship i feel like ive put more into it than she has. Her ex is supposed to leave mid july before i arrive (im staying at her place). We usually set skype dates to chat for a couple hours. Tonight we were on for 12pm her time 9pm my time . She said she was going shopping and would let me know where she was.. around 12:30 still no text i ended up texting her. she said she was running late with her friend "anne" so i said "okay take your time ill be home in a couple hours. she then asked me where i was going what i was doing. i have yet to respond. She mainly wants everything on her terms. how can i become a better man. remain more mysterious. when she ask what im doing? I have to follow through with this trip as i have a non refundable ticket to meet this girl and after 2 weeks im headed for thailand to train for 3 months.

As of right now im just trying to make it so things go smoothly the next 21 days. if this were to ever go over again i would never put myself in this situation. she has fucked 15 guys pre 18 and 2 after that. Always text me good morning but some days very cold towards me. All in all i want to be a better man. how can i achieve this? how can i remain mysterious? what can i do to improve my dating life? i would love to hook up with more women. how do i increase my confidence?

p.s. for example i responded now 2 hours later to her question of "what are you doing" with "causing trouble around town". she then responded with "a prime example of how you know everything about me but i dont know anything about you" how do i respond to things like that for future reference ?