Whats your go to date for dating sites?

heyuguyzbrekfazt · 2018-07-09T02:26:40+00:00

Every woman is different man. I know TRP preaches "send 5 texts and then the rest is logistics", but dude that only works on chicks who aren't fucking around or when you are a Chad.

Some of these girls are actually quite shy and nervous about meeting a guy online. Just because they are social around their safety net of friends doesn't mean they have the ovaries to meet a stranger over the internet. BECAUSE OF THIS, you need to build a rapport with these young ho's and get to know them a little. I personally soften them up on the dating website, then I throw them my name and number and tell them if they want to set up a date sometime, to hit me up.

When they hit me up pn the phone, I shoot the shit a little and ask about their weekend, whatever the fuck. Then I set up the date. I almost always do coffee, because I just want to see if I can get along with the chick. Coffee is cheap, it's easy, and it allows you to end the date quickly if there isn't a spark. I think inviting them over to your place is a bit too straight forward bro. A lot of girls are not going to be comfortable unless you're good looking as fuck, so I meet them in public to let them know I'm not a psycho.

(The thing with the coffee though, you have to be able to hold a conversation. And you have to have a few topics that you can talk about to keep her interested. If you can't hold a conversation, then make your first date something like going to the zoo, mini golf, ice skating, whatever the fuck. Don't do something like dinner or a movie.)

Have another date already in mind in case the coffee goes good. If the coffee goes good, I'll ask the chick if she wants to go somewhere else. For me it's either shooting range, ice skating, or if its in the evening, bar/drinks. If the conversation went CRAZY GOOD at the coffee shop, I'll straight up ask them if they want to rent a movie and go back to my place. I did this on my first date and we were bumping uglies in no time. You have to be honest with yourself and really assess the situation dude. If the chick seems like she isn't feeling the date and you KNOW you aren't, then she probably isn't either. Be looking for her smiling a lot and joking around with you and laughter.

Anyways, before I go on forever, yes I believe a lot of girls want that comfort texting for a while. I'm a fairly attractive guy, but a lot of the women SEEM to need a period of talking back and forth to feel comfortable. Just do not let them talk you to death without getting the date set up, you need to give her your "phone number ultimatum" eventually and put the ball in her court. I've only hooked up with one chick using the whole "logistics within 5 messages" strategy, the rest took some smooth talking and some time.

I've never had a flake yet with 5 different women, but I don't waste my time on girls who seem wishy-washy. My strategy might not be TRP to its core, but I've hooked up with two women in the past 4 weeks.

RedSkeller · 2018-07-09T01:42:50+00:00

Anything below 20 on dating apps is flake city. Fuck yes or no. Just have them meet you for coffee then casually drop how you have a bottle of wine and invite them over after some light banter at the shop. When through the door and seated, escalate.

Title	Whats your go to date for dating sites?
Author	mikerate
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	July 9, 2018 1:38 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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