Found out my mother had an affair with my biological father and then cheated on my step-dad afterwards. It’s not my business but she has purposefully denied me any interaction with my father and as a result I have never met him. My view of honesty and integrity is shattered. How do I overcome this?

KeffirLime · 2018-07-14T15:37:45+00:00

Nothing you do today can change whats in your past. You simply have to look forward and plot what steps to take now and what will yield the best results. Any brain power spent festering on the past, which you cannot change, is brain power wasted. So many kids die in childhood, get childhood cancers, get raped, murdered, don't have a meal to look forward to. Be thankful you've made it this far, have a computer and internet to even be able to type messages like this. You are luckier than you think. Use your position, with the information you have to focus on yourself and build a better self. Own the shit that's happened to you and channel it into building a better you.

Austin2Leader · 2018-07-14T19:19:47+00:00

Bro, you should be happy for the fact that the genes that you are carrying is "Alpha Genes". Read the book Sperm Wars by Robin Baker, and you will find a lot of answers that you are looking for. Do a research on Alpha Male and beta male.

Honesty, integrity is bullshit bro. These are all tools made by Elites to dumb us down and feel guilty so that we don't reach our potentials. We all have our inner Dark Triad Personality hidden with us, instead of repressing it, we should embrace it. Do definitely research on the term "Dark Triad", and you will know a lot about the inner psychology of human beings. The media, elites wants us to fail and dumb us down. they don't want us to know the "truth,"

You are really lucky that you found this site. And one more thing, read the side bars. And know one thing, since you have the alpha genes, you can also successfully become an Alpha male , have patience and good luck!!!!

CalvinRichland · 2018-07-14T19:26:23+00:00

You can have a mentor relationship with a man that isn't your father. Find a place where good men are and show a desire to learn something they know by offering your labor.

Also, never let someone hold you back. I take it you resent your mom, well be better than her. Be the most amazing you possible, and consider giving back. There is a wee bro out there that will never know a man. But you can find the man you are by mentoring him. Look at the big brother program or find a way to teach what you know to some little bros.

People focus so much inside we forget giving brings real happiness.

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