Freakonomics finds "A Hidden Side of Domestic Violence" that we've known about for a while.

2012-02-28T00:03:39+00:00

The comments on that site make me sick because of what those men went through. Something needs to change.

2012-02-29T17:24:37+00:00

i went jail for domestic abuse. The crazy part is that to me it was in self defense. I was living with a girl that turned out to have borderline personality disorder (a borderline waif to be exact) from what i can tell. Just imagine sitting at home having a good time and out of nowhere the person gets mad at you for no reason. Starts attacking everything you do but its all made up. The nicer you are and the more you seem to be in the right, the more she gets angry. She attacks relentlessly at every single thing you feel good about. She wont let you leave, she wont let you give in. While shes doing this to you, shes blaming you of doing it to her while crying and with puppy dog eyes. Then when you dont fall for it goes right back into rage. Anyone who knows about narcissist and borderlines knows that these people are never wrong, it would hurt there ego to be wrong. Im already a very sensitive person and im being bombarded with just hatred and i havent even done anything, just because she feels out of control and is. At this time im feeling frustrated because if i take the dominant role and yell and try to be the father/authority role she yells over me and fights even worst. If i submit and show her the pain im in and apologize, then she feels bad and hurts me even more. Im scared because i know the neighbors can hear yelling and might call the cops. I remind her of this throughout the argument but she doesnt seem to care about anything but her rage. The only thing i could do to stop the bombardment was to grab her hard, talk really sternly and deeply. I grabbed her arm and i bit it. I said you see that, thats pain, thats what your causing me, that is my power, physical. You are hurting me spiritually, emotionally, mentally and i consider that far worst because the bruise is visible and will go away but my pain no one will give a shit about and persists far beyond now. Of course being the reasonable person she is she bit me back and screamed.
By the time the cops arrived i had calmed the situation down already. From the moment they walked in the house they were out to get me. They saw a frail, pathetic white girl and a 200+ lb spanish guy and immediately jailed me. While i was in the cop car being ridden to jail they told me that i fucked up because it was a white girl. They admitted to basically taking her side because shes white and matters more to society. After having talked to her while booking me, they even came up to me and told me "Dude, you need to get away from this girl, shes crazy". But guess who went to jail anyways? As i get older i realize, i am alone. I have too much pride to cry about everything, or to involve people in every single one of my problems. When im hurt i retreat to myself and solve problems by myself unless i can really trust someone else which is rare. I will always lose to the white girl, the frail person, the victim, the screamer, the cryer, the narcissist, the borderline, the unfair, etc etc. This comprises most of the world. I am alone. The world will always fawn over the weakling because it makes them feel like saviors or better then the rescuee. Im very in touch with my emotions, i can express them clearly and have no problems sharing them. But most people don't want to listen and be a friend, they want to pitty you. Its all they know how to do. this is a psychophant world and women are the easiest to fall victim to that, and us men are on our way becuase we follow where pussy goes. This whole culture is one big mental disorder

Tl; Dr: Got arrested for domestic violence, was all her fault. Cops knew it but arrested me anyways. A case of Racism and Sexism and Psychosis

Title	Freakonomics finds "A Hidden Side of Domestic Violence" that we've known about for a while.
Author	SnakeJG
Upvotes	20
Comments	2
Date	February 27, 2012 8:21 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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