I was dating a girl for a while long distance, two years older than me. Managed to keep it healthy by giving her sexual freedom (IE. not caring if she banged other dudes), at the same time as never putting myself in a provider role (we shared costs, etc). I also never had much time for her, and never was one to initiate many conversations for the sake of attention. In the end, she moved away for school, but it was an intimate relationship where both parties ended up happy and satisfied. She never slept with anyone else, I didn't either. It was fantastic.

Now, after she's gone, and I'll likely never see her again, I want to explore my game potential. I'm a successful musician by trade, good-looking, fit, well-spoken, and quite intelligent. However, my interests seem to align poorly with a lot of girls, and therefore I find it difficult to approach them. Any other artists find the same problem?. I think it's just a fear of rejection, but I'm sick of people telling me/telling myself to 'Just man up,' as this isn't the way my brain works. I'm just interested in discussing that, and perhaps taking a hard look at my experience. I like the way a lot of you think.

Any fellow 19 year old RP'rs? I've seen a couple, but I feel pretty young here. I am learning the ways of game, but always I need some tips for getting over 'plateaus' in my game. I just hope I'm headed in the right direction.