Ok. So I didn’t really think coming to this Reddit community, with this question would be met with a lot of kind responses , but why not . I’m an asexual male, 23.For all who don’t know, asexuals lack sexual attraction. Ie: looking at someone and potentially being turned on depending on their looks. And while I still have a libido ( desire to orgasm ), and a desire to date for romantic purposes .... I often feel like I never got the official play book on WHAT TO DO in the sexual aspect of a relationship. Romance side is easy, since I genuinely feel strong romantic attraction to people . But when only one percent of the population is asexual.... i usually need to do more to keep someone close. But I immensely struggle with learning how to go about the very typical things just do for the sexual elements . I just don’t ever feel wired that way to know. Any recommendations on how to learn the basics ....? Maybe a stupid question for a typical guy.... but I’m willing to learn if anyone’s willing to point in a good direction. I’m sick of not getting what I need romantically because of my orientation .