Help with common misconceptions in Game -- To inner game or not to inner game? That is the question.

Future_Alpha · 2014-01-24T05:42:34+00:00

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asd1100 · 2014-01-24T11:02:45+00:00

/r/asktrp awaits
you sound like you have issues, fucking every pussy on campus won't take them away, and nor can a TRP mentor, find them out and embrace them, they are not related to TRP this sounds like a distraction.
stop mind numbing habits: yeah that, stop it
get laid, first of a hooker, ask her to teach you to be dominant, do it, memorize it for later. Fat chicks, ugly chicks basically any chick you think you're to good for, use them for training, NO LTR allowed. Yeah your bros will make fun of you and so they should, you're at that level, don't like it, to bad, after college you can find other "bros".
do something that requires effort and dedication, something that few people can do, be proud of failing and try again, and again, until you succeed or get hooked on something even more challenging, you are not to tell anyone, that also means no facebook posts, this one is only for you.
stop, for the love of god, just stop being such a suck up, your post makes me ill, "I have a problem, i am dedicate to solving this problem, any advice?" it's really not that hard
you can build triceps when you're 30 and add to the pussy roster up until your late 40's easily, college is just pathetic at those ages, so stop thinking with yo dick, buckle up and make your education a priority.

AveofSpades · 2014-01-24T03:47:47+00:00

Stop looking elsewhere. What is it that you want to do?

Figure your own goals and aspirations out. Shoot for the moon, don't let any naysayers pull you down, figure out what life you want to live and the rest falls in place.

If you need the X's and O's hit me up, but always remember that's secondary to the big goal

puaSenator · 2014-01-24T09:36:35+00:00

My take on it is this, it's fundamental to really get your innergame basics under control, then work on the outergame, receive success, and that will start feeding into building your inner game. I don't know how much you know about TRP history, but this place was sort of created as a post-seduction space to talk about game. It wasn't really meant to be an area for people just starting out trying to turn themselves around from scratch. But due to the increasing user base, the narrative has been sort of reshifted towards focusing on the basics which is why you're hearing a lot of inner game stuff. Initially most people here already had seduction down so discussing inner game was moot since most people already were at a higher level. But obviously, that's no longer the case.

What you want is less theory and more instruction, but frankly, TRP just isn't designed for that. You need to get some old school seduction outer game sources and work on that first, if clear blueprints are what you want (I'd say go to /r/seduction but that place has changed a ton in the past 2 years).

That being said:

learning to maintain frame -- how do I learn to control emotions when my sex drive has me wanting to chase pussy 24/7 -- especially since it gets no release?

Maintaining frame is mostly inner game. A lot of outergame will help build that confidence and get you comfortable with holding frame, but at the end of the day it's all about inner game. My tip would be to practice your game on easier targets. Get used to holding frame with 4s or 5s so you can get comfortable with how that feels.

How do I find Mentors, when I can't offer them much in return because I'm not even done college yet?

Mentors usually don't ask for anything in return. It's not like it's a signed contract. Usually it's just someone better at something than you, like you, and offer to help you out because they enjoy giving their knowledge. I have 2 business mentors and I only email them once a week and see them twice a year. How'd I find them? I just became their friends and started asking a lot of questions. Since they liked me and liked my subjects, they wanted to help whenever they can. Much like how you always have your guy friend's backs. But just like friends, they aren't just going to fall into your lap or find them on craigslist. You got to get out there. It can be anyone from a PUA to just some guy you know that has really good game at your school.

Fitch0y · 2014-01-24T11:54:11+00:00

Inner game and outer game are like strategic planing and operational planning to me.

Operational planning is the process of linking strategic goals and objectives to tactical goals and objectives. It describes milestones, conditions for success and explains how, or what portion of, a strategic plan will be put into operation during a given operational period, in the case of commercial application, a fiscal year or another given budgetary term. An operational plan is the basis for, and justification of an annual operating budget request. Therefore, a five-year strategic plan would typically require five operational plans funded by five operating budgets.

Inner game = Strategic planning

Outer game = operational planning based on the strategic planning

Inner game - Love yourself, be confident, hold frame, abundance mentality, DGAF attitude, Dark Triad...

Outer game - the expression to others of your inner game. You sell yourself, you value yourself, you are a price, so you demonstrate high value.

No matter how much value you display nearly no women would do the first step.

So you approach, open, kino, escalate.

Social skills can be learned.

Future_Alpha · 2014-01-25T01:52:53+00:00

Lots of good advice here. I had a best friend that seems similar to you, who I helped out, hopefully the same advice will give you something to think about.

From your post, it sounds like you're a virgin. That definitely complicates things. I think the realization that pussy is not that big a deal, that sex is no where near as satisfying as succeeding immensely at your passions, is something that only comes from fucking a few chicks (and dealing with the fallout from the inevitable botch job you do at post game your first time). I wouldn't be surprised if your lack of focus on schoolwork is linked to a lack of passionate interest too, I'll happily work late into the night on shit that I know I'm gonna need for my job, because I fucking love that material and want to be the best in my field.

You're an upperclassman in college, you probably like doing something. I sincerely hope that it isn't browsing reddit or playing starcraft or some shit, cause ain't no girl gonna fuck you for that (actually my friend has gotten some asian pussy for being competitive at smash). Start doing your passion with all your being. Let it consume you, think about it constantly, always be focused on how to be the best at it. You'll increase both your perceived value and your observable value so much that your confidence will skyrocket. The moment that you'll be completely comfortable talking to girls, running game on them, and casually fucking their brains out, is the moment that you realize that you aren't improving yourself for the sake of getting laid, you are just a bad ass mother fucker at _________ and girls want to fuck you for it.

Self confidence homie. It takes a self that you can be confident in. You want to get pussy? Make yourself the guy who gets pussy. Lift every day too, that shit is like game on easy mode.

Title	Help with common misconceptions in Game -- To inner game or not to inner game? That is the question.
Author	Future_Alpha
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Comments	17
Date	January 24, 2014 2:33 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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