As long as you pedestalize the female you will always lose.  This is a classic example of assuming you did something wrongbecause you didn't get the result you wanted.  The reality is a woman who is sexually attracted to you will WANT to go out with you. And it doesn't matter if you spoke to her for 1 minute or 15 minutes. Honestly.. less is more. High value men with options don't need to pander. If it takes you 15 minutes to close then its clear you are "auditioning" for her approval instead of just being blunt like you should be. The longer you talk the less confident you are. The less confident you are the more beta you are. The more beta you are the more likely you will get friendzoned or become an orbiter. Women decide pretty soon if they are sexually attracted to a man.They know almost right away.. just like men. When value comes up (money and status) that is more attractive because of how she can utilize the man. These things don't make her vagina tingle though. This is why many rich and famous men STILL get raped by ungrateful ex-wives in divorce court.

Everyone should keep in mind that NC and lack of attention are not supposed to be gimmicks. They are supposed to forms of time management ; A way to avoid wasting your time on things that are not worthy of your time. NC is for women who blew it with you. Its not to get a woman back. Ignoring a woman is for avoiding stupidity and unnecessary drama. If she want's to act stupid you have better things to do. When she returns to reasonable behavior she can have your attention again.  Its true that most men are overly responsive to women when it comes to giving attention. Just watch any HB9 or HB10 approach your average beta fag to ask a question or favor. Its like a boss-employee relationship. 

You have nothing to prove to a woman. If you believe you have something to prove then you are putting her on a pedestal and taking the position of beta fag.  You don't need to be a good conversationalist to f*ck attractive women. I know meatheads who are so stupid they can barely string a sentence together outside of what their favorite protein bar is... yet they have no problems attracting women. Being a "good conversationalist" comes out of the female rule book. Its a female template for status. Any man who walks away from another man and says: "He isn't a good conversationalist" is a flaming homosexual.  Men are the doers of the world. Men don't talk just for the sake of talking. Men talk when they have a purpose. Women talk to kill time. Don't try to adapt yourself to female sensibilities.

Fck first.. analyze later. That's the golden rule (my rule). Trying to figure a woman's intentions out before making a move is cowardly. If you want to date or sleep with a woman you should simply flirt with her and try to fck her. This is the easiest way to find out where you stand. Most men are too cowardly to be this upfront with women.. so they play the "relationship first" game and try to read her and wait for OBVIOUS signs of interest. This is gay. Why waste so much time when you can find out where you stand with a simple ass grab?  Be BOLD or go home. 

The red pill is both bitter and liberating at the same time.  From being on this site I've realized a lot of red pill "men" are not truly red pill. Many of them still believe in marriage and soul mates.  Once you TRULY accept the red pill the bitterness eventually goes away and you feel empowered. As long as you believe in thegolden vagina you will be a slave to your emotions and your penis. Once a man stops seeking the imaginary golden vagina ( That the media brainwashed him into believing in..) THAT will be when he feels truly free and at peace.   Women are for sex and reproduction. They are not meant to be your emotional support system or life partner. That is not what nature intended.. that is what Disney movies intended. Marriage was originally designed to keep women under control raising kids while men f*cked other women on the side.

If you find yourself confused by a woman's behavior, its because you are being manipulated OR you are ignorant about how women operate. She sensed you weren't the real deal and you proved her right.  A woman who doesn't want your attention will go ghost. A woman who doesn't trust you will act like a b!tch to see your reaction. Women need to be able to label the men they know ASAP so they know how to behave around those men.  Women know most beta faggots will take any female interaction they can get. The bottom line is.. women who are sexually attracted to you will submit to you. Anything other than submission is attention wh0ring, manipulation or exploitation. Women like to keep a beta faggot in the dark about where he stands because it allows her to use him without having to fck him.   As long as the beta thinks he has a "chance" at eventually fcking her.. he will be a willing, pandering and obedient orbiter. Women like to collect beta orbiters because they come in handy when she needs therapy, a ride, a favor, money, a body guard, etc.  Once a man knows he will NEVER f*ck a woman he loses his incentive to associate with her. So you'll notice a woman will almost NEVER tell a beta he has no chance with her. Its not about protecting his "feelings" its about keeping him useful.   This is why I tell men to get touchy-feely with women very EARLY and make it clear she won't get sh!t from you unless she gives you a sexual relationship.

The parts I regret are the parts where I screwed myself to benefit someone else.  True story.  As you might have guessed I don't do that anymore. I have no problem helping others. Sh!t that's half the reason I post here. But I will NEVER help others at my own expense. Sometimes this makes me come off as a douche bag. Don't care.  I have much more control, power and dignity in my relationships now than in my younger days simply because I take care of myself FIRST. This goes with women too. Men are always so quick to offer women as much as possible. You need to worry more about what a woman gives you and less about what you give her. Always live ON YOUR OWN TERMS

The only activity you should put any effort into with women is flirting. Flirt with them and touch them a lot. This is the most efficient way to deal with women for two reasons: 1. You know where to stand FAST. (an ass-grab is worth 1,000 words) 2. You f*ck her faster and/or rule out the friend zone immediately (an ass-grab is worth 1,000 words) Men use "techniques" because they are too chicken-sh!t to be direct and risk rejection. But the faster you get rejected the better. Time is precious.

Ever had a girl go silent? Ever sat by your phone and wait for her call/text? Ever wondered why she flaked on you?

Why is there that uneasy feeling in your stomach? Because you cared too much. The thought of losing her scares you! And that is why you will lose the girl.

No, I'm not going to tell you to think you are the prize, find hobbies, spin plates, make her chase you, etc. These are the byproducts of becoming indifferent. 

No matter how good you are at something, there are 10 other people that are better. Do your best, accept the rest. Stop demanding joy, attention and friends. Allow people to disregard you, it's fine. You have probably done it to others.

Who you are should never depend on externalities like your image or possessions. Every externality can fade (looks, fame, power, money, etc.) Become ZEN!

Indifference means you are in control of your emotions and your own true happiness. You will make decision based on your happiness and rules. You are conducting the greatest show on earth - YOUR LIFE

She didn't give you her number - Oh Well She flaked out on a date - Whatever She hasn't responded - Ok She won't put out - So?

I PROMISE YOU that you will start spending time with highly interested women.  I ASSURE YOU that you will attract women you want.  I GUARANTEE YOU that you will be happy.