LMR (sort of) with girl I've been seeing a bit

RedLegendx · 2018-07-29T19:41:36+00:00

Damn man, 2 steps forward 1 step back, you shouldn’t have kicked her out on the first attempt, you should have pushed for a second time after a while and if you met resistance then you should have told her to kick rocks.

illtyrone · 2018-07-29T19:53:38+00:00

Telling a girl to "get to work" is a sure fire way to get her to leave. You need to butter her up and feel out the situation before you start pushing her head down. You need to get her in the mood with subtle strategies rather than pushing her head down like a high school boy. People on this sub may disagree but any experienced man will tell you to never force a girls head down on your crotch and tell her to "get to work". It's simply poor taste. If you think making an abrasive comment like that is sexual strategy you have a lot to learn. Next time, enjoy your time together and get her pussy very wet before being so aggressive. Pure aggressiveness isn't sexual strategy. Controlled aggressiveness in the right moments is.

morekb · 2018-07-29T19:57:19+00:00

You should never push woman's head to your dick man, unless she's your girlfriend and is always DTF. You need to seduce, arouse her, make her wet, not go straight to pleasuring yourself with a blowjob. What were you thinking? It's a rookie mistake a guess. And preselection has little to do with it. Unless you are a rockstar and she's just random groupie.

heyuguyzbrekfazt · 2018-07-30T00:30:57+00:00

Bro you can't treat every woman the same. I saw in your comments that you claimed women in the past didn't mind that shit. Wake up smart ass - every woman is different.

If you two usually chill before you end up fucking, is it really that big of a surprise that she gave you the "wtf" when this occurred? Just because this ho shows up with no bras and panties doesn't mean she's already wet as hell and ready for the main event. You still need to do some kino, get her comfortable, all that dumb shit, unless she's already proven in the past that she doesn't need all that foreplay.

Also, I'm dying to know why you thought you could "Alpha" your way through her pulling back when you tried to force her to suck your dick. Dude if a chick doesn't willingly want to suck your shit, some chump line of "Get to work" is not going to change anything.

Should I just offer sex only or ghost, and if she doesn't comply that's that?

If all you want from this chick at this point is sex, then I'd say it's time to ghost. You could tell her straight up the conditions - if she wants to hang out its going to be sex and that's it, but most girls won't play ball if you verbally lay down the rules like that. You have to condition that kind of behavior/relationship through actions, not words.

zero12three · 2018-07-30T01:42:57+00:00

At least you didn’t break frame.

vandaalen · 2018-07-29T19:59:54+00:00

Stop using overt communication with women They hate it.

Stop showing women that you think they are slut. You can call them a dirty whore while you fuck her like one, but you should never make them feel cheap. She wants to be a slut for you, but she doesn't want to feel like one.

Also instead of pushing her head, why don't you just stand up and whip it out? Has a whole other dynamic to it.

Title	LMR (sort of) with girl I've been seeing a bit
Author	morekb
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	July 29, 2018 7:37 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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