My best buds lady is pretty anti social but has a very hot friend HB9 (doesn't affect my approach, just mentioning it so it's worth a minuscule more effort).

I went to my buddies 2 years old bday party, I knew she would be there (I asked buddy's girl to just get me in the same room). I wasn't there long, showed up , shot the shit with the guys, gave the present, etc. then when leaving said, "seeing as everyone is rude, My name is xxx, nice to meet you". I helped her take down some decorations, made some jokes to test the waters. She even mentioned in passing "Ya I tried to look you up on FB, but couldn't find it"

So I told her I'd activate for a few days just so she could stalk me but it's going down again (mistake I think). I get this message on FB.

So I am down to bbq with the gang. But I am a friend person before anything would ever even lead to more I have to get to know someone... I'm quite different from most females. Just letting you know as (buddies girl) wrote me. I just wanted to make sure you heard it from me. That would be cool to bbq and let all the kids play though.. I have a rack of ribs in my freezer and my kids don't eat em so I'm always partying by my self lmao.

The gang is my buddy, his girl, this hottie and myself with her kids. I did some very minor small chat on fb ( not too much, 3 or 4 messages the entire day, I know trp is Nazi about this but made her laugh and got her number)

So do I show up and just get right to it? Flirting, kino, joking, IDGAF? It's my strategy as of now, and if she gets weird or cold I want to abandoned ship immediately. I'll probably have to be there at least 2 hours as this is my life long friend and it would be weird to bounce quick. I was thinking and having something that'd I'd have to do to limit the time. There will be no other girls there to dread or start chatting up.

It's the plan but I was thinking about getting her out for a meet before Saturday as I was typing and just getting right to it?

CLIFFS Introduced to hottie shows IOI, stalks fb, gives number, messages quickly Hamsters up and says friends first with guys she meets going to small gathering with no other girls at buddies house How to proceed/escape?