We are a podcast highlighting this very under-reported and under-supported demographic. While statistics vary, some saying 1 in 4 men, some saying 40%, it is clear that male victims of intimate partner abuse and violence are many and growing under the pressure and isolation that COVID has wrought on families. Coercive control and parent alienation syndrome are also on the rise, with fathers being effectively erased in a court system that still favors females. In the UK, coercive control is a crime punishable by up to 5 years in jail. In the USA, it is merely a reason for a restraining order, but that's a start. The stigma, stereotyping, and discrimination surrounding domestic abuse contributes to a lopsided belief that only women are abused, and every time they say so, they are believed. Males are often mocked, disbelieved, and ridiculed if they report their abuse which causes a silent void where abuse goes unchecked. We need more public awareness of these issues and I would welcome any discussion or insight on the matter.
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I would argue only it's not as much as physical abuse than manipulation (cutting of sex as a reward to get what she demands), coercion (belittle him to gain control), gas-lighting (keeping her options open and if you don't like it your insecure), victimhood (I cheated on him because he wasn't treating me well and if doesn't accept it he isn't a real man), virtue signaling (I gave him everything all the love and support I could and he wouldn't take me to Hawaii or buy me a new car so I had to sell my body to get what I needed) and threating (if you don't do what I want and give me what I ask I will claim assault, get you thrown into jail, take all your money, use up all the credit cards, divorce you and take the house and kids with 100% of your income for child support and alimony).
That is scarier and more eye opening than domestic abuse on men.
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Only women claim all of them and if a man claims any he be laughed out of a police officer or courts.
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