So I often see on TRP that women are the "gatekeepers of sex" and that they are the ones to pick and choose who gets to have sex with them, and while I understand this perfectly, what if you're the one that tries to flip the roles? For example if a girl was coming on to you and you decide to turn her down and try to make her earn it, by not giving yourself up so easily wouldn't that increase your perceived value? If you've seen most of my post you'll know I'm more of an LTR guy than hookups, so if a girl had interest in me and I withhold myself for commitment what would happen? A lot of people here say you can't flip the roles like that but I see myself as more valuable than all women and they should have to earn my sexual intimacy, not the other way around.