I wonder why girls over the internet have this insane obsession for feminine idols like Justin Bieber and BTS, but in real life they don't want feminine guys. I think that because of personal and other peoples experience. I have quite feminine traits and I have always had a hard time with women because of that. I don't know if there's anything I can do to change it, but if there is please can someone share it with me. Or I hope I'm wrong, and there are actually women in real life that like feminine guys. Many women have mistaken me for my gender, even tho I'm a straight cis guy, it's only after I talked to them they realised I was a boy (my voice is not too manly but enough to know I'm a dude). pls let me know what u guys think