Guys, I've lurked here for the past 6 months. I've begun to lift, eat clean, spend more time working on career instead of socialising/internet and have made good progress but the one thing I'm unable to make progress in is with girls.
Somehow every chick around me seems to have a boyfriend? So who do I even go talk to? Not that I don't have other things to keep me busy but damn it, it is really starting to piss me off.
This has led me to be extremely frustrated and angry all the time. Also, I seem to be not able to get over hating all girls. I've tried meditation but it isn't helping, just makes it worse. Advice ?
And the said girls around me are all south asian FOBs ( I'm one too, Grad Student, STEM ). For every half decent looking girl (believe me I've lowered my standards a lot lately), there's always a boyfriend and a large bunch of orbiters. How do I even go about this? Am I doomed to sexlessness until I graduate, get a job and get out of this small college town?
I've restricted myself to FOB's (for now, atleast until I graduate and make serious money) not because of some "preference" but those are the ones I'm mostly around and I think they can relate to me better. So advice?
TL;DR : Pissed off all the time. Lifting/Meditation wont help. Advice? Every non-ugly girl around me has a boyfriend or is a prudish attention whore. Advice?
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