Lol. Imagine agreeing with FDS and thinking you're a prize

Westofomaha55 · 2020-12-10T23:49:38+00:00

Long comment incoming, skip to end if you don't have a minute

I like how FDS always forget men are the ones fighting wars so their arses can stay alive. If men didn't fight wars then they'd actually be under a dictatorship oppressing them, but no "AlL mEN aRE rApIsTs bECauSe."

men punish women when they are independent. They push you to pay 50/50 or more, while doing the bare minimum. Them chores gotta get done, gals!! Surely you’re not going to let your house fall into shambles because you’re paying 50/50?!? It’s your responsibility!!"

But men have to work more physical jobs such as construction, doing the dishes and laundry is like a 99.5/.5 split if you don't have kids. Granted it definitely gets more balanced when you have children but we have more work to do.

"We all know this and are fighting this. The point of this post - I realized I was not equal to a man when I went to legally change my married name back to maiden name. I had to post in a newspaper, pay some fees...oh yeah🤦🏽‍♀️ MY HUSBAND HAD TO GIVE PERMISSION FOR ME TO DO SO. I could not change my name unless he signed a document indicating agreement."

But why did you marry him if you wanted to keep your maiden name, or tell him when you married him. The logic is wack here, easily avoidable problem. (Also why do these people spam emotes or "YAS GURL" online. It's annoying)

"You are not equal to a man. This took place in New York City, March 2019. YOU ARE NOT EQUAL TO A MAN. Make him pay for the damned meal."
Why don't you guys look at statistics for men. You could easily be making more than your spouse or SO so why can't you split or take turns. Common sense. Also by implying they aren't equal to a man then they either place themselves above or below men. Ironically it seems the latter.

And now for the comments review

" Most men only bring whack dick to a relationship, and usually abuse.

We, on the other hand, are the table"

These people are bringing the abuse to the relationship.

"Thanks for this reminder. Sometimes I still feel guilty when a guy pays for a date. It makes me feel like I'm not doing enough. But I'm telling myself I need to get comfortable receiving."

Fds member has a brief moment of clarity before going back into wack territory.

(Long comment incoming)

"You are not treated equally, there is a whole system designed by men to benefit them at the expense of your ease. (Always patriarchy)

It goes from marriage and property laws, employment, safe apartment options, classroom treatment and more. By the time you marry and have a child, even with a man that does majority of the cleaning (mine does 95%) you still see how unfair things are for you. He has useless boobs so you are breastfeeding for 30 mins at a time every 2 hours while also bleeding and healing from labor (for months!). (Men have different bodies you idiot, women are built to nurse babies, men aren't) He can’t even help you, he can’t nurse or take away the physical pain or catch up on sleep for you. He can’t go to physical therapy for you or help you adjust to your drops on hormones. (WOMAN'S BODY PROBLEMS ARE MEN'S FAULT. WAAAAAH) The most he can do is bottle feed the baby and hold them for a few shifts a day. (So? The husband will protect the child with his life if danger ever comes) His work performance and mobility will only get higher after a baby, the men on his team will give him a pass if he says he was up all night with the baby. You will be looked down on for taking a “vacation” or gap during your maternity leave and being tired from being up all night makes you a liability and a burden to the team. (But if you're pregnant surely they would understand that, right?) And that’s just the first year of parenting, there’s so much more set up against you after this. (Again, men would give their life to keep their families safe. God gave us different bodies for a reason)

This whole shit is unfair and societal and cultural rules are set up against you. (Patriarchy) If your partner sees you as a human and has empathy, he will do what he needs to so that you are adequately comforted, supported and nurtured from a vile and sexist society. That’s his job as a leader of the household. And that means he has to do way more in the ways that he can, whether that be paying for more, arranging for hired help, compromising his me time instead of expecting his partner to do it more, and advocating for better systems." (But thats what a non abusive man will do, not some dude you hooked up with)

" Until men can give birth I’m not fucking paying for shit. If a woman pays for anything in a relationship, that relationship is 80-20 or 90-10 not 50/50. A woman should save all of her money to protect herself should the man betray her, bc the likelihood is extremely high. Fuck ALL that other noise. Anyone who says otherwise is a pickme idc."

Men will never give birth because you can't give a man a female reproductive system. You are also saying that a woman should save money so IF her husband betrays her somehow she can get all the dough and land him in prison or on the streets. No, Fuck your noise, anyone who says your ideas needs therapy

" I don't understand why women want to pay for themselves. My first ex was a cheapskate and I actually paid for his sorry broke ass (I've learned my lesion) but ever since that deadbeat is out of my life I haven't paid for myself since. Even guys on I've seen only once or twice paid for my coffee and dinner. My second ex and my fwb took me to fancy spas, restaurants, we even travelled abroad together(free of charge for me, of course). My ex even bought me clothes and paid for my beauty procedures. I got a taste of what it's like being spoiled and I'm never going back to 50/50 lifestyle. We deserve better than that"

Another FDS member has a moment of clarity but soon realizes that they deserve better than A MAN PAYING FOR EVERYTHING

TD:LR FDS is the same as always and seems to be slipping further into insanity.

Title	Lol. Imagine agreeing with FDS and thinking you're a prize
Author	aarozzk
Upvotes	10
Comments	3
Date	December 10, 2020 11:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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