My current bf is about 6 inches shorter than my ex. An acquaintance pickmeisha in one of my friend groups made a somewhat snide comment about it last time we were all hanging out that he didn't really care enough to notice but it really pissed me off for some reason. I don't know if she was jealous but I know some women will straight up refuse to date anyone under 6ft. It's definitely something I cared about when I was younger, but when I met current bf I just became so attracted to him. He has really broad, muscular shoulders and really strong arms and my body fits with his so well I find myself wanting to be intimate with him more often while with my total chad ex it was more like "here we go again." My 6ft ex used to always hit up his grandma for money. When my current hvm bf took me to visit his mid 90s grandparents, we ended up being late for my friend's party because he ended up cleaning out their refrigerator, changing the filters on his grandpa's hearing aids, etc..He was super apologetic for loosing track of time but to be honest I never mentioned to him we were running late because I was so impressed and turned on with how much he cared for them. I know from talking to his sister in law during a drunk bonding moment during my vetting process that he's been very reliable for them, more so than his dad or his aunts and uncles.

According to the incels all we care about is "6ft, 6 pack, 6 figures." I'm much more concerned with as an adult, are you taking care of your elder relatives or are they still taking care of you?? But we're the shallow ones?