Never listen to women who say they want a nice guy

Remarkable_Weather21 · 2021-09-15T20:46:56+00:00

Estenar · 2021-09-15T21:07:11+00:00

What kind of nice guy are you talking about? You mean seriously nice person or "nice guy" archetype?

You have different "nice guys". The emotional abuser, the delusional hypocrite, the incel and the one that let others shit on him...they are mostly put together in some way where one part dominate, or imho to say. - Like someone says the typical "nice guy" is looser, simp, who will do anything to get laid. Other evil people will use those people for money, status, anything really and he would not really give a damn, because he is insecure and "happy" that he finally found someone, even if that person evil.

Mostly, when woman says she want nice guy, she does not mean "nice guy".

Extra-Strike2276 · 2021-09-15T22:01:20+00:00

As a man, this subject and how so many of these "nice guys" act disgust me. I think most "nice guys" are confused on what a nice guy is. They aren't nice just when trying to get laid, which is what I see posted a lot. Most of these so called nice guys are very weak mentally and act like children when they don't get their way. Just because your nice, doesn't mean a women will want to fuck you.

When a women says she's wants a nice guy, she's meaning she's wants a guy she's attracted to that's also still a decent guy. It doesn't mean she's wanting any guy that's nice to her.

I personally haven't tried dating in the current environment, and I'm sure it's frustrating. Even if I wasn't married, I wouldn't even try. If your insulting women who just politely declined you though, your making it worse for them, which in turn makes it worse for you.

VestigialHead · 2021-09-16T00:31:34+00:00

This does not belong in this sub in any way mate.

Please understand this is for talking about feminism and its evils.

It is not for putting down women. So please do not post anti-women posts here.

See rule 1 - it could not be clearer.

d_nijmegen · 2021-09-15T20:14:49+00:00

The "nice guy" is nice as a way to get into her pants. A normal not asshole dude can be nice. Being nice isn't a turnoff. Holding her bag, that's the turnoff. Set limits boundaries and tell her a no sometimes. And you can be nice the rest of the time no problem

UrAverageBlackGuy · 2021-09-15T20:31:36+00:00

I’ve been in this deep rabbithole for years and here’s my conclusion about it.

Women obviously want a nice guy. But our definition as men of “nice guy” is flawed. Weak men who pedestalize and act like little boys aren’t obviously attractive, but we define them as “nice guys” “nerds” etc. I don’t even wanna be friends of these weak little soyboys.

Then comes in the guys who do get girls, obviously they look good (as one should). That’s the nice they want. As anyone should. Resources/money is very important. As any women should because their biological need for protection and provisioning of her future kids. And a real masculine man who says “NO” and doesn’t let her run all over him. As anyone should want in their partner.

Our definition of “nice guy” is a simp loser, it’s our fault that we demand being a “little bitch” to be arousing to women.

Gaminuz123 · 2021-09-16T00:12:44+00:00

I haven't even had my 1st date or gf yet and I'm extremely insecure about cheating , I am scared of being manipulated

Title	Never listen to women who say they want a nice guy
Author	WorstIreliaWorld
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	September 15, 2021 7:41 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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