Going out as group with girl who was into me but lost interest after date, how do I act

MattyAnon · 2017-09-13T18:10:28+00:00

Meet a few days later for a date where I fuck up badly, looking back I think she was nervous, I took it as a sign she wasn't Interested and was ready to call it quits. She insists on driving me home and then says she'll wait a bit longer to roll a cigarette when we get back outside house.

Well, at least you know you fucked this up.

I literally blurt out 'im gonna go now ' as soon we got back to mine, she looked shocked and kissed me when I went to hug bye which surprised me as I thought she wasn't interested, I pulled away from the kiss and just left

Do you not like sex or something?

I guess I Fucked up by making her think I wasn't Interested/ acting like a bitch ?

You rejected her.

Saw her out again a few days later and she blanked me, I was wasted and sent a bunch of drunk texts which she mostly ignored .I also blocked her on all social media because I'm an emotional wreck when I drink... Still working on that.

err. ok.

how the hell do I act around everyone

Be nice, be normal. Smile at her, but she'll probably continue to blank/hate you. Don't talk to her about it, it'll only add fuel to the fire. Just try and be normal about it

Is it even worth me trying to get with her now,

Doubt it, she won't trust you now.

11-Eleven-11 · 2017-09-13T19:40:08+00:00

Next the girl. Just treat her like a friend then ghost her. You fucked up but it was good learning experience for you.

Title	Going out as group with girl who was into me but lost interest after date, how do I act
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Date	September 13, 2017 5:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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