Servere approach anxiety starting to ruin my life

-drukpa-kunley- · 2017-06-22T02:38:33+00:00

First off, we've all been there. So don't sweat it.

But at the end of the day, the only way to get over approach anxiety is to approach. Period.

Start with approaching without the intent to seduce. Just talk. About the weather, about sports, about their choice in close or fingernail polish.

no_condoments · 2017-06-22T14:01:17+00:00

Approach everybody, not just attractive women. Talk to cashiers, bartenders, waiters, waitresses, etc. It helps you get used to talking to people.

Don't use the term "approach anxiety". People use that term as a way to validate and reinforce that they "can't talk to women". Try to forget about it, and just talk to everybody. Good luck.

Title	Servere approach anxiety starting to ruin my life
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Upvotes	3
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Date	June 22, 2017 2:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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