I had friend/business partner in college that I was attached to, and women couldn’t get enough of him. I realized a parallel between me and the women he dated. He was an asshole to me and the women he dated, yet i still chose to be his friend. Many women are in the same situation. I learned my lesson but some women don’t.

My roommate was a very alpha dude, because of sitting under him for a few years, I lost my virginity and basically became a man because of him. He was very successful with women. Sometimes we would get into it, not at the level of his girlfriends, but still enough to where we stop being friends and then make up later. Eventually we became roommates and I was doing wild stuff with him. He was charismatic, funny, a leader, confident and fun omg he was fun. and that was what kept drawing me back.

So basically: it’s not that women like being treated like shit, it’s just that they have to take the BAD with the GOOD. Sometimes the good makes the bad feel like it is worth it until you experience something so terrible you stop. Some women never learn some do. My roommate was dating a girl and he basically put a gun to her, after that she never talk to him again. Ever. She even stop talking to me and I didn’t have anything to with it! lol

This is just my observation please discuss. And some words of wisdom at the bottom, from a guy( I’m African American for context) who was around gangsters and hot heads when I was in college.

Me and my friend no longer talk I had to cut him off because that dude was getting too hot. He’s locked up now. Which leads me into this:

That alpha shit, and getting girls as result, isn’t what it is cracked up to be. Most of those dudes I know like that, are locked up, in and out of jail, there lives are unstable, broke, while the women they dealt with moved on to somebody else. These dudes living in hell trust me! I know so many dudes, they all having nothing to show for it.

You don’t have to be a bad boy to get girls. All you need to do is be exciting and command respect to get any girl.