I met this very nice, slightly older lady on Tinder. We've been talking for a few days, and she seemed more into me than anyone I've ever spoken to through a dating app or site. Would send 3 replies per text I sent. She proposed that we get together, and I told her tomorrow. Great, it's a plan. There's really not much else to say here. Just seemed we clicked great, teased each other, she was chasing me, and I expected great things.

Then she texts me today and says "Sorry, not interested." Haven't heard another word from her. The message before this one were three flirty bedtime messages from her. I'm truly at a loss; I've experienced countless flakes and reversals, but this one blindsided me.

The question: what in the Holy hell drives women to go after you with everything they've got, then completely 180 the next day for no reason?