Crosspost "Falsely accused of sexual harassment at work place." from /r/MensRights:

I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. I fear getting a job anywhere now in person. I have been accused of sexual harassment 3 times now 3 different jobs over a time span of 5 years. First job I was a manager at a restaurant and I worked in the game room never had any interactions with the girls who worked in the kitchen. Actually I didn’t even know their names because I never talked to them. This all started when I was hired on as a team member. I was 29 at the time which made me like the oldest person of the crew members and they were all like seniors in high school. I was promoted to assistant manager 3 weeks later. The crew members were angry that they been working there for 1-2 years with no promotion. Time went by kept to my self didn’t talk to anyone but the employees in the game room and my managers. 3 months after I was promoted corporate asked me if I wanted to move up and be the main manager and i said yes. Word got around and next thing I know I was being accused of sexual harassment by the girls in the kitchen. I got suspended from my job instantly and I ended up resigning due to not wanting to commit career suicide. Next job I was working a call center for JP Morgan Chase in Tempe, Az. I somewhat got lucky and landed a schedule with 4 10’s Monday through Thursday with a 6 am start time. It was an amazing schedule word got out in my training class after the trainer posted all the schedules for everyone to see. I was approached by multiple females asking me to give up my schedule because they wanted it. I politely told them no. 2 weeks later I’m under investigation for sexual harassment. I was accused for holding an elevator for a female coworker. There were 3 elevators but 2 were being worked on and our training was on the 8th floor. I held elevator open for her so she would not be late from break. Again I was suspended and again I was forced to resign. Jumping to the present now I was hired on at MOD pizza as a manger. My store manger asked me to be her eyes and ears for her while she was not working. While I’m my 2 weeks of training I observed a lot of behaviors that were not allowed and other managers were allowing the team members do what ever they wanted. Have head phones in or be sneaking a vape inside the store or going to chat with friends while stil on the clock. I was super careful not to follow any females into the back alone and when they were training me on what to do I would keep a good distance away from them. I only talked to them when I needed to and I didn’t hold any doors for anyone or asked any questions. A week went by and I would report my observations to my GM and she started writing crew members up and giving them warnings. 3rd week into training I come into work and I was pulled aside by my GM and said she had to suspend me due to a few of the girls that work there accused me of sexual harassment. I was shocked but at the same time not surprised. And yet again I was forced to resign.

I honestly do not know what to do anymore because now anything can be considered sexual harassment and with employers believing these females with only their word against mine.

Posted by Divide-Chemical | 18 October 2021 | Link