I’ll write this out as consisely as I can, otherwise it would be too long.

-I (22) met her (22) through work for the first time two years ago, however, I had a GF at the time -She followed me on some, and when I broke it off with my ex we started talking like every day(8 months ago). However, she lives and studies in a different city. (Our hometown is the same, so for summer and christmas we’re in the same city, however both study in different cities).

-We met in June, after a lot of anticipation. It was amazing right off the bat. Our chemistry was perfect. I always felt like she was super into me, and I always felt confident that she would be into me, because she’s not thaaat attractive, and not used to get that much male attention. I used to feel like I could get «better», however, there was something about her that made me fall for her. -We hung out a whole lot over the summer. Once, we hung out 5 days in a row. It was pure bliss most the time. -Summer came to an end, and we had to say goodbye. When we said goodbye she was really sad, and told me I had to come visit her. -Between then and now, we kept on talking frequently over snapchat. She said she missed me several times, and we started planning on making me visit her. -Last week, she went home, and she was really eager for me to come home as well to see her. So I did. -When I saw her, it was pure euphoria. She jumped into my arms, and clinged onto me. For the rest of the evening we were just cuddling and she wrapped herself around me. She didn’t want me to sleep over, but I just presumed it was because her entire family was home. -The day after, she went kinda cold. We were supposed to see each other, but it crashed with her other plans. I was so disappointed but I just thought she had a good reason. I went back to the city where I live the next morning, as planned. I was happy that we had our euphoric evening, kinda confused about not getting to see her the other night, but happy because it’s almost christmas and I get to see her then. -Then, out of the blue, she hit me with a text saying she’s doesn’t think she’s over her ex, and that she’s not ready for something new. I called her, and tried to talk her out of it, but she stood by her explanation. -Now, we haven’t had any contact for a little over a week, and I’m sooo fuc*ing confused.

It’s so frustrating. I’m so confused. She was with her ex for a while, and he’s the only one she’s dated except me. However it’s over a year since they broke up. What do you guys think happened? And what should I do?

Extra about her: she’s a bit awkvard socially. She’s extremely diciplined, and generally seen as a very good girl