We know the protocols. Man somehow should be good at approaching girls that never met before under loud music. Girls should always look good, get surprised when 10 different guys annoyingly approach them. Some men try looking first and seeing if there is a response, while girls almost always try not showing if they liked it or not.

Why do we do this? It's frustrating, makes us meet people because of the wrong reasons. We try to judge based on the information provided in an environment that means anything. Easy for a guy to feel bad. Easy for s girl to never find someone cool.

I've been there, every girl had a weird perception of me that had nothing to do with who I am, and more with their previous experiences. When girls actually knowe they get interested, say I'm a deep amazing person. Most become amazing friends after we date for a while.

Today I still feel the some urge to have a 0 out of 1000 matchs on Tinder or approach girls in bars, but I only do when they show clearly they are comfortable with me, almost invite me. Can't say I'm satisfied with the ammount of attention I have, but definitely better with quality in both appearance, personality and my emotions.

Am I the only one who feels like this? Does anyone have a tip for how I would have more attention while refusing to "play the game" on its core rules?