I have a colleague who is a nightmare. She's more senior than me, but is constantly phoning me up because she doesn't know how to respond back to her boss.

She's 10 years older than me. Extremely needy. She meets guys out on Tinder, lies about her age (I've seen her profile) some 20 years younger than her. They inevitably bang her and then never call her again. This has given her a weird complex, in that she thinks she must be attractive and cool, because young guys have sex with her, but it must mean all men are assholes because they never phone her back. I have tried to explain in a nice way that most men will have sex with someone, rather than not have sex and maybe it's better if there's honesty with the stated age (she outright lies about her age) and having more recent pictures on your profile. Which went over her head.

Last week she went through another work panic and I did get irritated with her as she phoned me three times in a day asking me the same question and in the end I just e-mailed our head boss and told him what the answer was, because she couldn't understand what I was saying. And she just randomly said:

''You're a really nice guy, but I don't find you attractive. Sorry''.

I was really like 'WTF''. Apart from listening to her bullshit stories, I have never made any attempt to meet up with her at work, gave her any complaints or give any sense of being interested in here, at all. To be honest everytime she phones me up, I must sound irritated as fuck, because, well it is irritating as fuck with the endless questions from someone who makes 33% more than you. On top of this, I'm seeing someone 8 years older than me and I'm not entirely convinced about that, however, my GF is at least athletic and interesting and keeps herself in good condition, unlike my colleague who doesn't take any exercise and just moans all the time.

I did however, smile and said ''That's really not a problem''.

''What do you mean by that?''

''I'm saying, that's totally not a problem''

She got a face like a slapped arse. What is it with this sense of entitlement?