most of what women here consider "pornsick kink" is just passionate sex, they' just aren't passionate about their long term partners. Sex is already a chore for them. She isn't very eager into exploring each other's bodies.

most of what falls under "unrealistic porn sex" can be found in the ancient Hindu texts of Kama Sutra, not californian porn studios. What women then see as "vanilla" or "normal sex" ironically looks something out of a Victorian era sex manual; discreet, in a missionary position, with the lights turned off possibly.

I'm myself hate violent things I've seen such as punching and spitting, it shows someone has a fucked childhood, but when there are women who refuse their partner a blowjob I cannot take their love seriously.